My boyfriend of 9 months is self employed which I’ve always respected. But sometimes he works and recently when I’m around him and it’s just annoying and kind of pushes me away. I’m not enjoying being around his company. I feel like when his friends are over he entertains them and doesn’t work around them but when I’m over he will work. I feel like I just waste my time leaving my house to go to his house. He always says ‘we gonna be rich’ but it’s not a we situation because it has nothing to do with me. It doesn’t really benefit me ( he don’t pay my bills, give me money, treat me all the time) not saying he should because he’s not obliged to but if he was it would be understandable. He’s given me money once because I was in a dark place and he wanted me to treat myself.
It’s not fun being around someone who’s constantly working 24/7 when business calls he jumps on his phone and laptop. It’s like I don’t want to leave my house and leave my work to come to him and watch him do work.
Also I feel like he never takes what I say serious until I cause a scene and make an argument out of it. I feel like if I told him this he wouldn’t take it the way I want it to be taken. Like I feel like should I be ok with this? No because I’m not a wife. He has 6 figures so it’s not like he’s broke and ofc I don’t want to stop anyone from getting money but i don’t want to be around people that are working constantly and constantly talking about money it’s really boring snd it aggravates my soul.
I feel like I’m not a wife so I shouldn’t be ok with this.
What do I do?