Found a condom in my boyfriend's wallet. Do I ask about it?

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AlienMother
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So my boyfriend was putting something in his wallet until a condom fell out and he had no idea why. The only thing I said was "Didn't you already use that one condom you had months ago" and he replied with "I must have packed two"

I do have some trust issues due to past relationships with cheating but this seemed suspicious. I remember that night clearly, he used it and it ended up ripping so we didn't use one (this was months ago) and the condoms I had he had an allergy with so how could you not use the second? I have the implant and due to health issues it's hard to conceive. We ended up just ditching the condoms on that night. I don't understand why he would have one because we don't use them and I do have a few boxes of condoms in my room when I was sleeping around and bought a pack he wasn't allergic to when we started having sex. He never had one after that night until recently.
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1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
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1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
Jeez this is controlling don't do it.
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1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
na na na, I mean I get your mistrust but checking someone's phone is the end of the relationship. If you have concerns you need to talk to him
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(Original post by Anonymous)
1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
Don't listen to that anonymous person that's how people end up breaking up. Just try speaking to the guy about it.
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1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
Thats baaaaad advice, very controlling thing to do.
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Speak to him about it x
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(Original post by Anonymous)
1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
1) Ask to check his phone.
2) Ask him to take the condom out and bin it.
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People calling it controlling but not offering any advice themselves.

‘Talk to him’. Yes, it’s not like people with the moral compass to cheat would suddenly value honesty. Most cheaters would deny and gaslight.

Checking his phone is an invasion of privacy, but it is the most efficient way of finding things out. Before doing that though, ask yourself if there were any red flags you previously ignored? Did he give you a reason to feel suspicious other than this?
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1) check his phone
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
Number 1 is stupid advice
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Speak to him about it x
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Track the condom expiry date (it's about three years) if it changes you have your answer.
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