Found a condom in my boyfriend's wallet. Do I ask about it?Watch
I do have some trust issues due to past relationships with cheating but this seemed suspicious. I remember that night clearly, he used it and it ended up ripping so we didn't use one (this was months ago) and the condoms I had he had an allergy with so how could you not use the second? I have the implant and due to health issues it's hard to conceive. We ended up just ditching the condoms on that night. I don't understand why he would have one because we don't use them and I do have a few boxes of condoms in my room when I was sleeping around and bought a pack he wasn't allergic to when we started having sex. He never had one after that night until recently.
2) take the condom away to see if he buys new ones
‘Talk to him’. Yes, it’s not like people with the moral compass to cheat would suddenly value honesty. Most cheaters would deny and gaslight.
Checking his phone is an invasion of privacy, but it is the most efficient way of finding things out. Before doing that though, ask yourself if there were any red flags you previously ignored? Did he give you a reason to feel suspicious other than this?