Boyfriend left me when in pain...Watch
Me and my bf have been arguing all week on Monday I left his house after a petty argument snd said I am done! We once a day but it was more disagreements from Monday till Friday. Friday we met up and didn’t really speak about it but we was fine. I felt like I over reacted abit on Monday due to my hormones everywhere and me being in pain my tolerance was low and I just thought f the relationship.
Friday was fine and I stayed over I had bad period pains and stomach cramps due to gastrsitis which makes me nauseous all the time when I get these episodes in which he knows. Saturday morning he was working ( self employed) so we didn’t really speak much. I asked if he can go pharmacy for me ( he just laughed, we always joke around but he actually did end up going). (I feel like he isn’t considerate when I’m in pain unless I cause a huge issue or unless I’m crying screaming in pain which I don’t think should be the case I shouldn’t have to be dying in pain for him to understand, I also suffer from migraines and a lot of times he just doesn’t get when I want to be in the dark or need the volume down! ) anyways that pissed me off but I was like whatever. So we didn’t really speak much in the morning. The afternoon comes and he says let’s go out with his friend knowing full well I’m in pain. He asks me multiple times and kinda begs me but I’m in pain and he just don’t get it. ( bare in mind he’s going Out of London at night to see his family in which I thought we’d be spending time together before especially because all week we was arguing). So he gets in the shower and saying he’s going out regardless if I’m coming. I’m in pain, on my period and just upset that he would actually go out with his friends full well knowing this. When he comes out the shower I ask to book my cab so I can go home he does so and I say how inconsiderate he has been and how he didn’t need to go out with his friends on this day especially when I’m sitting in his house in pain and discomfort it just wasn’t necessary. And he starting saying things back( I can’t remember ) but I ended up getting so mad and shouting loudly in his face.
I left his house after literally yelling my lungs out crying yet again same thing on Monday. I was so angry and in pain and discomfort. It’s been about 30 hours we still haven’t spoke and he hasn’t said nothing. I feel like this is so so inconsiderate knowing I was in pain. When he had a car accident I looked after him when he was in pain so I would assume he would be there for me when I’m in pain. I feel so upset he hasn’t even said if I’m feeling better or anything. I understand it’s period pain and us girls get it all the time but it’s painful still and my gastritis is super painful on top of period pains and hormones flying everywhere.
What do I do or act?
Don’t stress, if the feelings right you two will come back together. I’m going through the same with my mrs and we have been together since we were in year 9, nearly 4 years. We have massive arguments and literally we can both be so toxic but we have such a bond where no matter what we’ll always be there for eachother. Or atleast that’s how I think 😂 but honestly, just relax, give it time and focus on yourself! Everything happens for a reason ❤️
Do you feel like I was over reacting for yelling in his face and being angry about this? IM still in pain till today and nothing I’ve been in pain all week and I haven’t had no comfort from him. Obviously he can’t get rid of the pain but to comfort someone when they’re in pain is important especially your boyfriend or girlfriend. He hasn’t even said nothing. He always saying I speak to him disrespectfully and he’s not taking that **** anymore but I don’t think this time I was disrespectful
No I haven’t because I’m hurt and annoyed. I don’t want to say anything I’ll regret. Hormones are still high. I feel like he should reach out to me but he hasn’t. This is when I start to loose respect for him .....
Your feelings are very valid, I too would be really mad. People without periods will never fully understand how it feels like and many of them lack empathy. I heard a man say “they can’t be that bad, so many girls go through it and act fine”. Honestly pisses me off.