How do I get my ex to tell his friends and family we're back together?

Watch
Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 1 week ago
#1
So me and my ex got back in touch and started dating for 4 months now, things have been going amazing and we are happy.

Problem is, we've been keeping it a secret because we don't know how people will react as near the end it was toxic and we had a pretty toxic break up. His friends and family only know his side and mine only know my side. The secret is starting to get overwhelming for us both and I want to tell my friends and family about it, I know they won't be happy but I know they'll accept it because I am happy. His family and friends will not be pleased at all, they said they'll stop talking to him but I told him if they were truly your friends, they wouldn't do that and maybe it's time to share two sides of the story together with them all and maybe share one by one.

He really doesn't want to and said he doesn't want to at all but it's putting a strain on the relationship we have.

How do I convince him to tell his family and friends? We are doing so much better than we did before and I don't want it to end, we've never been this happy.
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#2
Report 1 week ago
#2
You want him to tell them about it all
He doesn't' want to because maybe hes not ready or comfortable enough yet
So you should both come to a compromise, not just him
How about he tells his friends hes back in touch with you and that you guys are good friends?
Once they settle in with this then he can tell them your back together
take it in steps he doesnt have to break the news as a whole x
0
reply
Qxi.xli
Badges: 20
Rep:
?
#3
Report 1 week ago
#3
(Original post by Anonymous)
You want him to tell them about it all
He doesn't' want to because maybe hes not ready or comfortable enough yet
So you should both come to a compromise, not just him
How about he tells his friends hes back in touch with you and that you guys are good friends?
Once they settle in with this then he can tell them your back together
take it in steps he doesnt have to break the news as a whole x
^^
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

What uni admissions terms did you/do you find confusing?

Adjustment (113)
14.18%
AAM (Additional Assessment Materials) (85)
10.66%
Changed course offer (35)
4.39%
Clearing (58)
7.28%
Conditional offer (11)
1.38%
Deferral (33)
4.14%
Ucas Extra (92)
11.54%
First Generation or First in Family (25)
3.14%
Point of Entry (56)
7.03%
Self-release (116)
14.55%
Tariff Point (64)
8.03%
Unconditional offer (11)
1.38%
Withdrawal (23)
2.89%
I understood all of the language used in the application process (69)
8.66%
I found another term confusing (let us know in the thread!) (6)
0.75%

Watched Threads

View All