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zurgextoitzke
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My gf and one of my guy friends are friends. The guy friend is autistic im not sure if thats the actual reason for this but it might be. Basically my guy friend thinks that my gf has started liking him. He no longer thinks me and my gf are that serious. He thinks they have some kind of connection, and even brought c***d***s (im not sure if that needs censoring but you never know) to a day out they went on with some of our other friends when i was sick one day. It got to a point where they were alone together waiting for a bus and he started making her uncomfortable a little by trying to sit closer to her and hinting at things. Weve all talked to him over and over about how this isnt ok and it makes her uncomfortable but he just doesnt seem to understand. What do we do
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(Original post by zurgextoitzke)
My gf and one of my guy friends are friends. The guy friend is autistic im not sure if thats the actual reason for this but it might be. Basically my guy friend thinks that my gf has started liking him. He no longer thinks me and my gf are that serious. He thinks they have some kind of connection, and even brought c***d***s (im not sure if that needs censoring but you never know) to a day out they went on with some of our other friends when i was sick one day. It got to a point where they were alone together waiting for a bus and he started making her uncomfortable a little by trying to sit closer to her and hinting at things. Weve all talked to him over and over about how this isnt ok and it makes her uncomfortable but he just doesnt seem to understand. What do we do
Has your gf told him herself that’s she doesn’t like him that way and that he’s making her feel uncomfortable by doing this?
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Wow that's super shady. It seems like he doesn't really care about your friendship at all and is being creepy towards your gf. If it were me I'd cut him out of my life. It's pretty toxic behaviour and I think you have that right. It's worth discussing with your gf at least.
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I think it'd be fair to have a serious conversation and if he doesn't listen then you might be better cutting him out of your life.
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