Can I report a historical mental abuse by a teacher in the 70s

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What do I do
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What would you aim to achieve by reporting it?
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Is the teacher still alive? You haven’t given us a lot of information.
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If they were teaching 50 years ago the likelihood of them being alive to defend themselves is quite slim. What would you gain from doing this?
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That’s over 40 years ago. You can report it probably but I don’t see the point.
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They're probably worm food at this point tbh.
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Is the teacher still alive? You haven’t given us a lot of information.
I dont know if he is still alive I'm finding just doing this hard enough
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What would you aim to achieve by reporting it?
So that I can look him in the eye and let him see what he did to my life. I was 6 or 7 when it started until I was 11
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So that I can look him in the eye and let him see what he did to my life. I was 6 or 7 when it started until I was 11
Do what you like, if he’s alive
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If they were teaching 50 years ago the likelihood of them being alive to defend themselves is quite slim. What would you gain from doing this?
I dont know I just want him to see what he's done to my life maybe
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That’s over 40 years ago. You can report it probably but I don’t see the point.
Why can you not see the point ? Tell me what you would do if you were in my shoes ?
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I dont know I just want him to see what he's done to my life maybe
Uncomfortable truth, he probably knows/knew but just didn't care.
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Find out of he's alive and still teaching, if so report it to the school. I'm doubt anything will come of it, but you feel its something you need to do then do it. Talking to some kind of support group will probably achieve more for you mentally though.
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Why can you not see the point ? Tell me what you would do if you were in my shoes ?
I wouldn't dredge up the past unnecessarily. Why wait over 40 years?
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Find out of he's alive and still teaching, if so report it to the school. I'm doubt anything will come of it, but you feel its something you need to do then do it. Talking to some kind of support group will probably achieve more for you mentally though.
Thank you for understanding I know there's probably no chance of me ever getting some closure this has been hard for me just asking for advice on here your right I should get some support and help. Thank you
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You'd get a nice 'We regret you may have experienced this many decades previously before any of us worked here" letter

You're not going to get any dramatic confrontation with them, even if they're alive/still teaching (v low chance)
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I wouldn't dredge up the past unnecessarily. Why wait over 40 years?
Are you a human ?
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Are you a human ?
Maybe, maybe I'm an imposter.

In seriousness though I just don't see what good can come of this over 40 years later. You won't get anything from it now.
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What do I do
Nothing. Get over it.
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So that I can look him in the eye and let him see what he did to my life. I was 6 or 7 when it started until I was 11
The man is long retired or dead, and I'm not really sure who you would even report him to so far down the line. Speaking to a councillor or therapist would probably more beneficial to you if this is still affecting you 40 years later.
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