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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now. We are always talking about not wanting to use condoms anymore and I was really starting to get excited about it.

Now all of a sudden he’s decided he doesn’t want to because of issues like pregnancy/stds and stuff (I’ve tested negative for stds) which he knows. I’m just kind of confused as to why the sudden change.

I feel really offended by this,
Should I be?
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ItsStarLordMan
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I read that as brother and almost slammed my laptop shut :lol:

The points he's made are valid. Maybe he's realised how negatively consequential it could be for you two. I wouldn't be offended. Have you tried asking him?
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It’s very reasonable to be worried about pregnancy. It would be very wise to get on some other form of contraception before dispensing with the condoms, as I’m sure you know.

I dunno why his mind changed quickly. Maybe he read something on the internet about conception, pregnancy, the cost of raising kids... idk. Best to talk to him about it
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I don't see any reason why you should. Whether or not you want to use any sort of contraception, that is a decision you both have to make. I also think he's being quite reasonable with the reasons why he has changed his decision, although that might be affected by other things too.
It's always best to discuss with the other person, if you're ever unsure of their actions/responses.
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(Original post by ItsStarLordMan)
I read that as brother and almost slammed my laptop shut :lol:

The points he's made are valid. Maybe he's realised how negatively consequential it could be for you two. I wouldn't be offended. Have you tried asking him?
I have he doesn’t say why just that he’s changed his mind
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