Boyfriend going off to uni without meWatch
should I break up with him before uni starts or stay with him ?
you could be risking your relationship, but what kind of value are you really placing on it if breaking up with him to avoid the disappointment of being broken up with is a viable option?
Tbh it's probably a good idea to break up. You're going to change a lot when you go to uni (both of you) and even if you go to a uni nearby it's exceptionally unlikely that you stay together the whole time. Might as well agree to enjoy it while it lasts without the constant fear of breaking up.
That isn’t a simple option when you both love each other. You don’t Just break up with someone because there’s obstacles in your relationship. We want to make things work but we’re stuck for a way now for now. I do agree that breaking up could be the only way if he can’t learn to trust me. But I think if he does learn to trust me then everything will be okay