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right so i just cant help but think i have the worst luck when it comes to relationships/finding people. i feel like i'm never enough, and this has been proven time and time again. i literally just want to be a guys safe place and feel important in LITERALLY anybody's life, but my trust issues are at an all time high, and nobody wants me ig. im only 17 but ive genuinely accepted that im going to die alone, i really hate it and wish i could find someone who relates, i have no one and nothing
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Hunny...everybody has somebody... everybody has that person.... ur 17 ur probably not gonna meet ur forever person just yet...in the mean time use these relationships as opportunities to grow and learn about urself and what u want in a partner... but above all learn to love urself and work on ur confidence, u cant expect someone to love u without loving urself... learn to shine on ur own before u try to share ur light, u r the sun
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right so i just cant help but think i have the worst luck when it comes to relationships/finding people. i feel like i'm never enough, and this has been proven time and time again. i literally just want to be a guys safe place and feel important in LITERALLY anybody's life, but my trust issues are at an all time high, and nobody wants me ig. im only 17 but ive genuinely accepted that im going to die alone, i really hate it and wish i could find someone who relates, i have no one and nothing
Count me on that too
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Tbh I feel like that sometimes. Not all of that but that I'll be alone for the rest of my life, or at least for a long time yet, and I'm OK with that.
Although I am significantly older than you.

You're young. You're still growing as a person and you'll meet someone when the time is right.
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thank you so much, i’ll try, but it just feels like something i’ll never truly achieve
Everybody wants to be wanted. Everybody wants to be loved and to love.

But you said some interesting things - Why do you think you have trust issues and what are they?
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As u said you’re only 17 so don’t lose hope
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Everybody wants to be wanted. Everybody wants to be loved and to love.

But you said some interesting things - Why do you think you have trust issues and what are they?
i just feel paranoid and suspicious of everyone and everything, like someone cant even compliment me without me thinking theres an underlying/insincere reason. ive been used so many times, and im starting to think its because i want to give so much.
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As u said you’re only 17 so don’t lose hope
im really trying :/

(Original post by MariaSampaio)
Hunny...everybody has somebody... everybody has that person.... ur 17 ur probably not gonna meet ur forever person just yet...in the mean time use these relationships as opportunities to grow and learn about urself and what u want in a partner... but above all learn to love urself and work on ur confidence, u cant expect someone to love u without loving urself... learn to shine on ur own before u try to share ur light, u r the sun
thank you so much, it just sounds so silly because im really young, but i do feel like times running out?, i look around at all my friends (older, same age and younger) and they seem to have everything i want and more? i cant help but feel so alone, im not sure how to explain myself idk
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i just feel paranoid and suspicious of everyone and everything, like someone cant even compliment me without me thinking theres an underlying/insincere reason. ive been used so many times, and im starting to think its because i want to give so much.
Don't let the weak and the bad define who you are. You're stronger than that.

I know it's hard when you've been hurt. But five years from now, when you're with whoever it is you're meant to be with, you're going to be glad you didn't let yourself become jaded and angry.
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Don't let the weak and the bad define who you are. You're stronger than that.

I know it's hard when you've been hurt. But five years from now, when you're with whoever it is you're meant to be with, you're going to be glad you didn't let yourself become jaded and angry.
thank you (: i definitely needed a quick release, even if its anonymous. thank you so much, i hope you get everything you wanted out of life (:
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right so i just cant help but think i have the worst luck when it comes to relationships/finding people. i feel like i'm never enough, and this has been proven time and time again. i literally just want to be a guys safe place and feel important in LITERALLY anybody's life, but my trust issues are at an all time high, and nobody wants me ig. im only 17 but ive genuinely accepted that im going to die alone, i really hate it and wish i could find someone who relates, i have no one and nothing
Bruh ur 17 and you feel this way i've known I will die alone since I was 9
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right so i just cant help but think i have the worst luck when it comes to relationships/finding people. i feel like i'm never enough, and this has been proven time and time again. i literally just want to be a guys safe place and feel important in LITERALLY anybody's life, but my trust issues are at an all time high, and nobody wants me ig. im only 17 but ive genuinely accepted that im going to die alone, i really hate it and wish i could find someone who relates, i have no one and nothing
Omg give me a break please ! You are literally 17! I'm 23 and still haven't found my person!

Just get on with your life and be the best person you can be, you seem very immature and naive and it appears you need to do a lot of growing (mentally) in order to then have a healthy and stable relationship in the future.

At this point in your life 'finding someone' should not be on your priority list !

Focus on personal growth and when you least expect something may come up.
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https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/group.php?groupid=2537

:awesome: Plenty of people who can relate.
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Omg give me a break please ! You are literally 17! I'm 23 and still haven't found my person!

Just get on with your life and be the best person you can be, you seem very immature and naive and it appears you need to do a lot of growing (mentally) in order to then have a healthy and stable relationship in the future.

At this point in your life 'finding someone' should not be on your priority list !

Focus on personal growth and when you least expect something may come up.
I like this
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I like this
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thanks
Can I follow you or can you follow me so that I can follow you back?
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Omg give me a break please ! You are literally 17! I'm 23 and still haven't found my person!

Just get on with your life and be the best person you can be, you seem very immature and naive and it appears you need to do a lot of growing (mentally) in order to then have a healthy and stable relationship in the future.

At this point in your life 'finding someone' should not be on your priority list !

Focus on personal growth and when you least expect something may come up.
I don't know if you get this, but that was kinda rude! And for you being 23, you should've used better judgement on how to handle this situatuon and the fact that you didn't makes YOU IMMATURE.

As far as the OP:
I feel like that sometimes. Growing up is hard especially at 17 because you're not a kid anymore, but you're not quite an adult either, and your emotions can be all over the place. I can tottally relate, and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I"m here ust PM me!
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I don't know if you get this, but that was kinda rude! And for you being 23, you should've used better judgement on how to handle this situatuon and the fact that you didn't makes YOU IMMATURE.

As far as the OP:
I feel like that sometimes. Growing up is hard especially at 17 because you're not a kid anymore, but you're not quite an adult either, and your emotions can be all over the place. I can tottally relate, and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I"m here ust PM me!
I'm totally ok with that

The truth tends to hurt a lot of people
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I'm totally ok with that

The truth tends to hurt a lot of people
you can't say that a 17 year old is immature when you're 23 and immature
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you can't say that a 17 year old is immature when you're 23 and immature
Well actually I can say what I want quite frankly

This 17 year old needed a reality check that something like this isn't at the forefront of her current life

I can't help the fact you are bitter about how I express my honest opinion
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