is it shallow to want a cute gf?Watch
Nothing wrong with wanting to be attracted to the girl you're dating.
If you're someone who takes pride in your appearance (e.g. dress well, exercise etc.) OR you use your appearance to express yourself, then it's only natural you'd want someone who shares those qualities.
On the other hand, if you're a slob who doesn't wash, or look after yourself in any way, then yes, it's extremely shallow (and potentially unrealistic) IMHO.
Just because you're attracted to them, doesn't necessarily mean they're stereotypically good looking does it
IMO People can look or act cute, but it's not really a 24/7 thing, no one looks cute wiping their ass y'know?
No, not necessarily. If you’re willing to overlook things like being an awful person or having a boring personality for the sake of cuteness, that’d be shallow. But hoping to be attracted to a prospective girlfriend is perfectly natural.
However, just like the other person said, if you're willing to overlook things like being boring or having a terrible personality because of looks, then yes that is kind of shallow.