Is it okay to ask a girl if she's virgin or not?Watch
I assume that you have a sexual history related dating dealbreaker or prefer to wait until marriage.
I've never told any bf or anyone else how many sexual partners I've had and never would.
I do make it very clear that I don't support sexual abstinence until marriage while my mother & maternal grandmother do.
Occassionally mentioning to the more traditionalist guys that I have lived in mixed accomodation, drink alcohol, have turned down arranged marriage offers and cut contact with my parents years ago.
It's not okay to ask about number of sexual partners, you need to be more subtle.
Focus on talking about your own attitudes towards waiting until marriage, hookup culture, tradwives and traditional family values.
Her responses are likely to tell you everything that you want to know and provide a very good indication of how compatible the two of you would be as a couple.