Is it okay to ask a girl if she's virgin or not?

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I recently met a girl and it's important for me to know this.
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yeah its fine, just be clever about how you ask
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Its not okay & it shouldn’t even be an issue
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I recently met a girl and it's important for me to know this.
It is
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Anonymous #3
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I asked a girl once and it pissed her off so better not to risk it bro
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yeah its fine, just be clever about how you ask
how do i ask cleverly?
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it's important for me to know this.
why?
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cause i am a virgin and want the same in return.
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I asked a girl once and it pissed her off so better not to risk it bro
Never allow that to stop you. You want what you want. She would expect a response to a question that she wants as well.
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cause i am a virgin and want the same in return.
in that case, starts by saying that rather than just asking the question bluntly
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If you do, it might seem like you only want her for sexual reasons
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I recently met a girl and it's important for me to know this.
No.
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I recently met a girl and it's important for me to know this.
your own mother is not a virgin so why does it matter?
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It is
I'm sorry, why is it an issue?
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Just chill: if he want a virgin, he wants a virgin. It's just personal preference.
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Depends on the girl. If she doesn't want to be asked, she probably isn't.
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I feel like only people who sleep around would be pissed off at that question.
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No it's not. It's creepy.
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cause i am a virgin and want the same in return.
Weird reason dude. It's not that deep if she's lost her virginity.
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No.
I assume that you have a sexual history related dating dealbreaker or prefer to wait until marriage.

I've never told any bf or anyone else how many sexual partners I've had and never would.
I do make it very clear that I don't support sexual abstinence until marriage while my mother & maternal grandmother do.
Occassionally mentioning to the more traditionalist guys that I have lived in mixed accomodation, drink alcohol, have turned down arranged marriage offers and cut contact with my parents years ago.

It's not okay to ask about number of sexual partners, you need to be more subtle.
Focus on talking about your own attitudes towards waiting until marriage, hookup culture, tradwives and traditional family values.
Her responses are likely to tell you everything that you want to know and provide a very good indication of how compatible the two of you would be as a couple.
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