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hi

i messaged a guy in one of my classes who is doing a similar course to me at uni to ask him how he decided on the one he's going to cause i have an offer there too. after his reply i just said that if i choose that uni i'll hopefully see him around - he replied that we could get a coffee or drink if i decide to go there. he's a really nice guy anyway and i'm not sure if he's just friendly or if there's anything more?
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hi

i messaged a guy in one of my classes who is doing a similar course to me at uni to ask him how he decided on the one he's going to cause i have an offer there too. after his reply i just said that if i choose that uni i'll hopefully see him around - he replied that we could get a coffee or drink if i decide to go there. he's a really nice guy anyway and i'm not sure if he's just friendly or if there's anything more?
Perhaps, a coffee really is classed as "pre-date" anyway, it can be interpreted in a variety of different ways.
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Perhaps, a coffee really is classed as "pre-date" anyway, it can be interpreted in a variety of different ways.
Baby stitch, you need to chill too.
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That could very well just be friendly, but he could theoretically be interested in more; there’s really no way of knowing without talking to him and spending more time with him. How do you feel about him - are you interested in something more? Try and figure out what you want instead of fruitlessly speculating about what he might want
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That could very well just be friendly, but he could theoretically be interested in more; there’s really no way of knowing without talking to him and spending more time with him. How do you feel about him - are you interested in something more? Try and figure out what you want instead of fruitlessly speculating about what he might want
He just asked for a coffee...
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hi

i messaged a guy in one of my classes who is doing a similar course to me at uni to ask him how he decided on the one he's going to cause i have an offer there too. after his reply i just said that if i choose that uni i'll hopefully see him around - he replied that we could get a coffee or drink if i decide to go there. he's a really nice guy anyway and i'm not sure if he's just friendly or if there's anything more?
You reached out to him.

It seems a polite way to stay in touch as a friend. Its not enough info to read more into it.
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He just asked for a coffee...
Thats what I said in my response to the OP, it can strictly be friendly
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You reached out to him.

It seems a polite way to stay in touch as a friend. Its not enough info to read more into it.
Finally, someone with some sense. Thank you.
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That could very well just be friendly, but he could theoretically be interested in more; there’s really no way of knowing without talking to him and spending more time with him. How do you feel about him - are you interested in something more? Try and figure out what you want instead of fruitlessly speculating about what he might want
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He just asked for a coffee...
Yup.
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Yup.
Excuse me mate, you having a laugh?
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wow, i wasn't expecting some people to be so mean...
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Excuse me mate, you having a laugh?
...no? I’m beginning to think it is you who needs to chill.
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it's completely fine if it was just friendly, i have literally 0 experience with boys that's why i came on here to ask as I find it really difficult to tell
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wow, i wasn't expecting some people to be so mean...
I’m sorry if what I said came across as mean, I didn’t mean it that way
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That could very well just be friendly, but he could theoretically be interested in more; there’s really no way of knowing without talking to him and spending more time with him. How do you feel about him - are you interested in something more? Try and figure out what you want instead of fruitlessly speculating about what he might want
I'm not sure, he is really nice and we've got on in class before, I used to think I liked him but i'm not sure really. thanks for your nice reply btw
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I wasn't expecting some people to be such a snowflake.


You need to chill so I can chill in order for you to chill mate.
Feel free to not comment on the thread, I'm a young person asking for advice, don't think that makes me a snowflake
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I’m sorry if what I said came across as mean, I didn’t mean it that way
No worries it didn't at all
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I'm not sure, he is really nice and we've got on in class before, I used to think I liked him but i'm not sure really. thanks for your nice reply btw
Glad to have been of help
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Glad to have been of help
You didn't help me... why are you glad?
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