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Anonymous #1
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I’m actually super pissed, I spoke to this girl for 2 months, was super nice and everything and now have just been friend zoned. I asked her how she feels about the whole thing blah blah I can’t see us being more than friends. I hate females, i’m crushed, I put so much time in to this. She gave me signs she wanted a long term relationship, gave me hope.

I’m a guy who never really feels emotional but I actually want to cry, i’m depressed and only feel pain inside.

Please help me
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Anonymous #2
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you should have told her earlier
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Anonymous #1
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you should have told her earlier
I know, it’s my first time getting that far so I wasn’t really sure what to do. I know for next time now, I also cut off every other girl I was speaking to for her. I put way too much trust in her
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I know, it’s my first time getting that far so I wasn’t really sure what to do. I know for next time now, I also cut off every other girl I was speaking to for her. I put way too much trust in her
what year are you?
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Being friendzoned when you feel positive is horrible although sometimes there can be wishful thinking if things aren’t moving forward. You just have to learn a bit from any setbacks and keep battling. There is not just one fancyable girl there are many
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by tej3141)
what year are you?
I’m 22 😭😭
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(Original post by Zarek)
Being friendzoned when you feel positive is horrible although sometimes there can be wishful thinking if things aren’t moving forward. You just have to learn a bit from any setbacks and keep battling. There is not just one fancyable girl there are many
Should I move on instantly like right now or is that a bad idea
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I’m 22 😭😭
oh damn lol. that's tough - i was getting ready to say itts not a big deal if you were in high school or something
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I’m actually super pissed, I spoke to this girl for 2 months, was super nice and everything and now have just been friend zoned. I asked her how she feels about the whole thing blah blah I can’t see us being more than friends. I hate females, i’m crushed, I put so much time in to this. She gave me signs she wanted a long term relationship, gave me hope.

I’m a guy who never really feels emotional but I actually want to cry, i’m depressed and only feel pain inside.

Please help me
im sorry you can pm me if you want to talk about it
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Anonymous #3
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m actually super pissed, I spoke to this girl for 2 months, was super nice and everything and now have just been friend zoned. I asked her how she feels about the whole thing blah blah I can’t see us being more than friends. I hate females, i’m crushed, I put so much time in to this. She gave me signs she wanted a long term relationship, gave me hope.

I’m a guy who never really feels emotional but I actually want to cry, i’m depressed and only feel pain inside.

Please help me
At least it didn't happen like she dumped you when you were in a relationship with her
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'I hate females' is that really necessary...
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Should I move on instantly like right now or is that a bad idea
I think this is the best advice. I made an ass of myself a couple of times through not accepting things won’t change. In hindsight it’s wasted angst. Fine to be friends once you’ve found someone who is enthusiastic if indeed it still matters then
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At least it didn't happen like she dumped you when you were in a relationship with her
I think sometimes it can be better to have loved and lost than to be rejected by someone you really want
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I think sometimes it can be better to have loved and lost than to be rejected by someone you really want
Not really because you had that person and then they were gone
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'I hate females' is that really necessary...
Allow the man to vent for once -_-
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That really seems like a disappointment you set yourself up for, not one that the girl cruelly inflicted on you. The majority of women will not want to date you, or any given person, no matter how nice you are to them. Only spend months speaking to people that you’d be happy speaking to for months with no ulterior motive, and then at the end of those months, whatever the outcome, you’ll be happy.
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(Original post by taylorswiftfan56)
'I hate females' is that really necessary...
Let him vent lol. It's the same idea when us girls say 'All men are trash'..
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Allow the man to vent for once -_-
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Let him vent lol. It's the same idea when us girls say 'All men are trash'..
No, I don’t think it’s right to let that one get by. The woman did nothing wrong here. She didn’t hurt his feelings intentionally - in fact, letting him know she wasn’t interested in romance at the moment she did was kinder to him than dragging it out further. Painting yourself into this kind of corner and then blaming women for supposedly hurting you is not a good mental habit to get into. This is how misogynistic incels are born - I’m not suggesting OP is one yet, but the more he gets ’’I hate females’’ into his subconscious, the more of one he will become.
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(Original post by Qxi.xli)
Let him vent lol. It's the same idea when us girls say 'All men are trash'..
Is that acceptable either though?
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Bro if you say you hate females because you got friend-zoned... that’s kinda funny
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