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Hi all!

Yesterday, a girl I (17M) both went on a (first) first date together, and really hit it off. Afterwards, I sent a message thanking her for everything, and we both agreed that we would like to meet each other again.

When it comes to this kind of thing I am really inexperienced, and wondered if anybody had some advice on when it would be appropriate to get in touch again, maybe just to talk? We had a really great time, but I didn't want her to think that I am coming on to quickly, but not interested either. Would it be better to wait and see if she gets back in touch with me?

Thank you all for your time.
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you seem to have handled the first bit quite well. if you want to start a conversation with her soon, make sure it's about something worth talking about, not just a "hey what's up" that way she's not going to get second thoughts
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
you seem to have handled the first bit quite well. if you want to start a conversation with her soon, make sure it's about something worth talking about, not just a "hey what's up" that way she's not going to get second thoughts
Thank you so much - that was kind of what I was thinking. Like, mentioning listening to a band she recommended or something?
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Thank you so much - that was kind of what I was thinking. Like, mentioning listening to a band she recommended or something?
sounds a bit dead to me

if something interesing happened to either of you worth discussing, i'd start with that. music is a bit of a deadweight once you're done talking about it
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sounds a bit dead to me

if something interesing happened to either of you worth discussing, i'd start with that. music is a bit of a deadweight once you're done talking about it
Alright, thank you so much for that - I'll definitely bear that in mind. I feel like I am kind of navigating unknown territory here, so I really appreciate your advice
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi all!

Yesterday, a girl I (17M) both went on a (first) first date together, and really hit it off. Afterwards, I sent a message thanking her for everything, and we both agreed that we would like to meet each other again.

When it comes to this kind of thing I am really inexperienced, and wondered if anybody had some advice on when it would be appropriate to get in touch again, maybe just to talk? We had a really great time, but I didn't want her to think that I am coming on to quickly, but not interested either. Would it be better to wait and see if she gets back in touch with me?

Thank you all for your time.
You were great!
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You were great!
Ah, thank you! I was definitely nervous, having never dated before, and only exchanging a few messages with them before-hand, but we really had a great time (and definitely memorable), I think.
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