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My boyfriend and I argued last night and now he appears to be ignoring me.

He said he was going to sleep and then 30 minutes later was on another form of social media talking to someone else. I questioned this but ended up getting called an idiot and stupid.
Today he has ignored me even after me apologising for “overreacting”!

I know this sounds pathetic but I have so many thoughts going through my head! He never reassures me either but apparently I constantly ask for and to him it’s getting old due to me asking for assurance.

Help a girl out - both female and male advice welcome!
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HoldThisL
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you sound a bit insecure, he sounds a bit impatient

you might be mismatched but the person to speak to to work that out is him, not us
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Last night and now, it's not been entirely more than 24 hours, is it? However, if you've already apologised, what's more there to do? Ask him or give some time or space. And if he still doesn't get back or talk, well ask him where did you go wrong.
If you still feel insecure about your relationship, ask him directly if you guys are okay
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So after all…. It turns out that he was cheating on me and I should’ve trusted my gut. He ignored me for a week and ended up sleeping with this girl twice in one weekend!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So after all…. It turns out that he was cheating on me and I should’ve trusted my gut. He ignored me for a week and ended up sleeping with this girl twice in one weekend!


Unlucky.

Plenty of other fish in the sea. He did sound a bit dodgy from the get-go calling you an idiot and stupid, he sounds fairly toxic.

Glad it ended because if you can’t really sort out your arguments, or agree to disagree, the relationship is done.
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Sounds like he doesn't care about you and is willing to lie to get away from you. Wouldn't be surprised if he's cheating on you either. End the relationship and find someone more compatible for you.
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Plenty of more attractive single fish in the dating sea.
Many of whom will be compatible with your dealbreakers and keen to get to know you.
Always trust your gut instinct and listen to what your common sense is telling you.
Good luck!
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