what are your TURN OFFS in a potential bf/gf

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Anonymous #1
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mine are
if he's too obsessed with world wars
owns a BMX bike
if he's rude to his family members/friends unprovoked
if he's rude to shop workers or waiters unprovoked
if he has the blue eye-blonde hair combo
doesn't know how to clean (or just chooses not to clean..)
if he cares too much about his social media posts/followers/likes
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So you are the one asking about dating/hookup apps to try, on a student forum?
I don't think anyone's interested here.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by jenerous)
So you are the one asking about dating/hookup apps to try, on a student forum?
I don't think anyone's interested here.
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Not using semi-colons to punctuate list elements (where appropriate). It annoys me for some reason.
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I'm not her first
She's rude unprovoked
Need I say more?
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Judgemental
Aggressive/opinionated and close minded
Arrogant/delusional (knows 10% and think they know everything)
Rude to service staff, other people
Not pet friendly

Those are 100% dealbreakers, Idk if she's funny, CEO of L'Oreal and looks like Kate Beckinsale.
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Bad table manners (loud chewers, plate scrapers, slurpers etc).
If they comment on my food.
Who swear excessively.
Overly emotional.
Can't take a joke or become very defensive/aggressive over little comments.
Their version of 'banter' is insulting another.
Disrespectful to others.
Controlling (I like a little possessiveness, but not controlling).
Into BDSM.
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Anonymous #2
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Anger issues
No respect towards young/old
Backbiting/ridiculing others
Has eyes for other women
Into porn/sexually active
Arrogance
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Anger issues
No respect towards young/old
Backbiting/ridiculing others
Has eyes for other women
Into porn/sexually active
Arrogance
Pretty sure most of us are into porn, but not by choice. It's very addictive
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Unnecessarily rude
Arrogant
Zero personality other than being nice
Can’t clean up after themselves or cook (not asking for master chef level but can at least survive lol)
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- Bad hygiene odour.
- Physically aggressive (makes me cringe for some reason).
- Relies on food for their happiness/sanity.
- Likes to scare people for fun.
- Projects their anger towards others.
- Controlling/manipulative/fake.

Don't know why but rude girls do appeal to me... I'm a weird fellow. I know a few people in real life who despise them.
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(Original post by Katya_93)
Bad table manners (loud chewers, plate scrapers, slurpers etc).
If they comment on my food.
Who swear excessively.
Overly emotional.
Can't take a joke or become very defensive/aggressive over little comments.
Their version of 'banter' is insulting another.
Disrespectful to others.
Controlling (I like a little possessiveness, but not controlling).
Into BDSM.
Your my sort of girl
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(Original post by Kovalensky)
Judgemental
Aggressive/opinionated and close minded
Arrogant/delusional (knows 10% and think they know everything)
Rude to service staff, other people
Not pet friendly

Those are 100% dealbreakers, Idk if she's funny, CEO of L'Oreal and looks like Kate Beckinsale.
What If the girl is too short like a midget for example... Would you still consider her my dear friend?
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Anonymous #2
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(Original post by urlocalinmate)
Pretty sure most of us are into porn, but not by choice. It's very addictive
You always have a choice to get rid of this habit. Addiction>self control?
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(Original post by Katya_93)
Bad table manners (loud chewers, plate scrapers, slurpers etc).
If they comment on my food.
Who swear excessively.
Overly emotional.
Can't take a joke or become very defensive/aggressive over little comments.
Their version of 'banter' is insulting another.
Disrespectful to others.
Controlling (I like a little possessiveness, but not controlling).
Into BDSM.
So... You wouldn't like others to see you eating i.e attacking & annihilating everything that was on the table and doesn't exist anymore.
Or the quantity of food consumed...
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Immature, especially not being able to take responsibility for themself
Jealousy, not trusting me around other men/women
Controlling or possessive
Doesn't put in their fair share of work in any aspect of the relationship
Overly argumentative, won't respect my opinions or talk over problems in a civilised manner
Rude or mean to me or others
Dishonest or emotionally closed off
Any sexist/homophobic/biphobic expectations
Bigger age difference than two years
Watches porn or thinks that sex is the most important aspect of a relationship
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(Original post by Anonymous)
mine are
if he's too obsessed with world wars
owns a BMX bike
if he's rude to his family members/friends unprovoked
if he's rude to shop workers or waiters unprovoked
if he has the blue eye-blonde hair combo
doesn't know how to clean (or just chooses not to clean..)
if he cares too much about his social media posts/followers/likes
smokess weed
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urlocalinmate
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(Original post by Anonymous)
You always have a choice to get rid of this habit. Addiction>self control?
Well, sex is the perfect substitute but if someone needs both, it shouldn't bother you unless it has a negative effect on the relationship. It's not easy for everyone to understand what addiction is like, some have it bad.
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Anonymous #3
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The absolute deal breaker: slutty i.e. loads of male friends or flirting too much with guys, other boyfriends or other admirers she hasn't friend zoned etc.
Other no-no's:
Rude / coarse i.e. very strong regional accent, use of swear words, sharp tongued, *****y
Insensitive (boys have feelings, although some girls don't think they do)
Makes little or no effort with clothes or hygiene
Tory voting or right wing
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(Original post by Anonymous)
The absolute deal breaker: slutty i.e. loads of male friends or flirting too much with guys, other boyfriends or other admirers she hasn't friend zoned etc.
Other no-no's:
Rude / coarse i.e. very strong regional accent, use of swear words, sharp tongued, *****y
Insensitive (boys have feelings, although some girls don't think they do)
Makes little or no effort with clothes or hygiene
Tory voting or right wing
Haha I like the Tory voter or right wing.
Perhaps I should call some of my friends here but they don't take part in these threads...

So you are a jealous type... Who wants to be the only attention to a potential girlfriend.
What if she likes you but she has had several others in the past or a high sex drive?
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