Is it normal for boys in a relationship to find other people attractive?

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i know the answer is probably yes, but to be honest, because i’ve been in a relationship for over a year and a half now, i can tell if a boy is good looking but i’m not attracted to them, like if you put 10 boys in front of me, i’d be able to put them in order ugliest to best looking, but i don’t find them fit, like i don’t walk past a boy and go he’s fit
anyway just wondering if it’s normal for a boy to find girls fit and if yes then how i can get over it because i’m insecure and it really upsets me
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Yes. Bering in a relationship doesn't magically switch off eyes, brain etc, our subconscious doesn't give a monkeys about labels.
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i know the answer is probably yes, but to be honest, because i’ve been in a relationship for over a year and a half now, i can tell if a boy is good looking but i’m not attracted to them, like if you put 10 boys in front of me, i’d be able to put them in order ugliest to best looking, but i don’t find them fit, like i don’t walk past a boy and go he’s fit
anyway just wondering if it’s normal for a boy to find girls fit and if yes then how i can get over it because i’m insecure and it really upsets me
Yes, most if not everyone is attracted to other people too even in a relationship
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i know the answer is probably yes, but to be honest, because i’ve been in a relationship for over a year and a half now, i can tell if a boy is good looking but i’m not attracted to them, like if you put 10 boys in front of me, i’d be able to put them in order ugliest to best looking, but i don’t find them fit, like i don’t walk past a boy and go he’s fit
anyway just wondering if it’s normal for a boy to find girls fit and if yes then how i can get over it because i’m insecure and it really upsets me
As a guy myself yes I see people are attractive, but when you're in love with someone in a relationship a little glance is all it is. Other than that, there's literally no feeling to even act on it
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Yes. Because their penis' don't fall off when they're in a relationship. And neither do their hormones switch off.
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Yes. It's also normal for girls.
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No. When I'm deeply in love with someone I don't find anyone else attractive.
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