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Call the police because that's a forced marriage. Honestly, who does this guy think he is that would be part of some harem?
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Call the police because that's a forced marriage. Honestly, who does this guy think he is that would be part of some harem?

He clearly wants both women and this is his excuse.
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Heres some advice: you can't marry two people.
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and I thought I was autistic.

He clearly wants both women and this is his excuse.
Who are you calling autistic? I merely interpreted 'had no other choice' to mean forced because that's the only scenario in which you would have no choice and forced marriages are illegal, and do actually happen in real life.
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Call the police because that's a forced marriage. Honestly, who does this guy think he is that would be part of some harem?
I dont think so its forced marriage, but maybe his parents like another girl for him and for their happiness he will just marry her.
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Heres some advice: you can't marry two people.
In Islam, boys can have 4 wives.
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In Islam, boys can have 4 wives.
Not in the UK they can't :horns:
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I dont think so its forced marriage, but maybe his parents like another girl for him and for their happiness he will just marry her.
If he's not being forced to do it then he is choosing someone else over you and that kind of wasteman is not worth your time or energy.
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Who are you calling autistic? I merely interpreted 'had no other choice' to mean forced because that's the only scenario in which you would have no choice and forced marriages are illegal, and do actually happen in real life.
I doubt he is being literally forced it is most likely his parents picked their choice and he has to either be a man and say no
, marry her or what he is clearly doing and try to have his cake and eat it.
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Call the police because that's a forced marriage. Honestly, who does this guy think he is that would be part of some harem?
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Glitch. OPs post disappeared. I don't use 'x's' ever
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Glitch. OPs post disappeared. I don't use 'x's' ever
I won't tell her about your PMs to me :teehee:
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tldr

OP has a bf
BF's parents have a match lined up
BF is saying he loves OP, but will marry the match
BF is suggesting OP be his second wife
OP is stupidly asking what to do rather than cutting contact with the sleazy guy
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tldr

OP has a bf
BF's parents have a match lined up
BF is saying he loves OP, but will marry the match
BF is suggesting OP be his second wife
OP is stupidly asking what to do rather than cutting contact with the sleazy guy
hows that stupid? im sure this website is to ask for an advice or something. If i knew what to do, I wouldnt be here right now. Lmao. Maybe you never had a gf/bf before, so u dont know how it feels leaving someone close to u.
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hows that stupid? im sure this website is to ask for an advice or something. If i knew what to do, I wouldnt be here right now. Lmao. Maybe you never had a gf/bf before, so u dont know how it feels leaving someone close to u.
Never even had the pleasure of spying on a lady through the keyhole, ya got me

Kidding lol

I don't mean that you are a stupid person, but you deserve better and he should not put you in this position if he loves you
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If he really does want to have a future with you, can he not discuss it with his family, and not agree to marry someone else?
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Never even had the pleasure of spying on a lady through the keyhole, ya got me

Kidding lol

I don't mean that you are a stupid person, but you deserve better and he should not put you in this position if he loves you
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If he really does want to have a future with you, can he not discuss it with his family, and not agree to marry someone else?
i guess not everyone's parents are supportive. Its not like he doesnt love me, it is just that he is doing it for the sake of his parents coz he got no choice. thats why he asked me to marry him, so at least we can be together, but the thing is he will also have another wife and i dont like it.
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Never even had the pleasure of spying on a lady through the keyhole, ya got me

Kidding lol

I don't mean that you are a stupid person, but you deserve better and he should not put you in this position if he loves you
yeah u r right, he shouldnt, but not like he got a choice. thanks anyway x
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i guess not everyone's parents are supportive. Its not like he doesnt love me, it is just that he is doing it for the sake of his parents coz he got no choice. thats why he asked me to marry him, so at least we can be together, but the thing is he will also have another wife and i dont like it.
OK, but he can still make his decision, regardless of the parents' support or not. Yes, it'll be much harder, but it sure can be done, as has been done by various others who have been in similar situations.
Unless of course, he wants multiple relationshios, then the matter's all yours to decide whether you can compromise with that or not.
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OK, but he can still make his decision, regardless of the parents' support or not. Yes, it'll be much harder, but it sure can be done, as has been done by various others who have been in similar situations.
Unless of course, he wants multiple relationshios, then the matter's all yours to decide whether you can compromise with that or not.
yeah you r right. didnt know love is so hard and have to go through so much. 🥴 anyway, thank u
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