My mum doesn’t have a driving license and never had oneWatch
Yes I’m in England and my mums lived here for like 20 years. Also all her sisters who live here speak English and drive and everything except her. She has to rely on my dad for everything even making appointments. And my dad is old and sick.
That's OK, my mum has never driven either. Instead of being ashamed of your mum, maybe help her to learn English. It will make life a lot easier for her (and maybe the rest of your family too) if she can communicate with people outside the home.
On the one hand I feel a bit sorry for her because I couldn't imagine what it'd be like to be in a foreign country for 20 years without understanding anything anyone who wasn't the same ethnicity and nationality as me was saying, but on the other, I'm sure there's been opportunities to learn, I mean your dad did it, so why didn't she?
My mum doesn’t drive a car and never has. This makes me feel so ashamed since she even doesn’t know English and my dad has to do everything and it’s so embarrasing telling everyone. If my dad dies were basically stuck because she doesn’t know how to do anything. What do you guys think?
Her not speaking English is though but then if it embarrasses you so much perhaps you should teach your mum how to speak English. Thats what I would do.