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Hi, so I broke up with my ex yesterday coz I didn’t have romantic feelings towards him and I said I wasn’t ready for the relationship as I didn’t want to blame him btw it was 5 months relationship. But he actually accepted and deal with it quite maturely, however, he was heartbroken and upset. He then told me to block him everywhere on social media and his number coz he thought he’ll deffo try to message me or try to see my pictures on social media which he didn’t want to do as it would hurt him more!
He lives 2hrs away from me and we’ve met once and done things! He’s a nice guy but sometimes I find him a bit clingy and he constantly talks about himself!
Now I cannot stop thinking about him! Idk what it is but deep down inside I feel bad for hurting his feelings 💔 idk should I unblock his number and try texting or should I wait few days and see how I feel! Is still wanted to be friends with him but he didn’t want to be friends with someone who he had a feeling for them! I get where he’s coming from but I’m 💔😞
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Leave it at least 2 weeks before you do anything.
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You broke up with him so just move on. Messaging him again is just playing with him and his feelings.
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This is someone you met once in 5 months and for whom you have no romantic feelings. What are you missing, exactly?

Move on, and let him do the same and find someone who is actually attracted to and cares for him as part of a relationship.
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Hi, so I broke up with my ex yesterday coz I didn’t have romantic feelings towards him and I said I wasn’t ready for the relationship as I didn’t want to blame him btw it was 5 months relationship. But he actually accepted and deal with it quite maturely, however, he was heartbroken and upset. He then told me to block him everywhere on social media and his number coz he thought he’ll deffo try to message me or try to see my pictures on social media which he didn’t want to do as it would hurt him more!
He lives 2hrs away from me and we’ve met once and done things! He’s a nice guy but sometimes I find him a bit clingy and he constantly talks about himself!
Now I cannot stop thinking about him! Idk what it is but deep down inside I feel bad for hurting his feelings 💔 idk should I unblock his number and try texting or should I wait few days and see how I feel! Is still wanted to be friends with him but he didn’t want to be friends with someone who he had a feeling for them! I get where he’s coming from but I’m 💔😞
No leave it cause it will mess with his head, so just leave it
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