Worried about my friend having underaged sex
My friend is only 13 but she's having sex with her boyfriend the problem is she said she pressures her into it and only says yes because she doesn't want him to leave her the thing is I already know this guy has cheated on her yet she forgave him. She has a bad upbringing as her parents don't care about her, how can I help her?
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Report it to the police.
If she’s under age then he’s breaking the law. If he is pressuring her and she is not fully consenting then that could be classed as rape. If he gets done by the police and turns out that he has forced her and they find him guilty then he will be placed on the sex offenders register! Try to talk to her and explain this. Hopefully she’ll come to her senses and either finish with him and report him or at least end it with him. Also, are they being careful? If he’s pressuring her to have sex then he might be pressuring her to not use contraception. He may also have an STD.
Original post by Kelivesy
If she’s under age then he’s breaking the law. If he is pressuring her and she is not fully consenting then that could be classed as rape. If he gets done by the police and turns out that he has forced her and they find him guilty then he will be placed on the sex offenders register! Try to talk to her and explain this. Hopefully she’ll come to her senses and either finish with him and report him or at least end it with him. Also, are they being careful? If he’s pressuring her to have sex then he might be pressuring her to not use contraception. He may also have an STD.
The problem is she keeps saying oh but I love him, she doesn't use any contraception either
I know but she won't see it that way even though she admits he pressures her into sex and sending nudes
Yeah think i will tell my head of year, just that my friend said she will kill me if I tell anyone
Original post by Anonymous
My friend is only 13 but she's having sex with her boyfriend the problem is she said she pressures her into it and only says yes because she doesn't want him to leave her the thing is I already know this guy has cheated on her yet she forgave him. She has a bad upbringing as her parents don't care about her, how can I help her?
She needs a lot of help and special friendship, sexual health education.
how old is her boyfriend?
How old is her bf? 
Original post by Anonymous
how old is her boyfriend?
14
Original post by Anonymous
My friend is only 13 but she's having sex with her boyfriend the problem is she said she pressures her into it and only says yes because she doesn't want him to leave her the thing is I already know this guy has cheated on her yet she forgave him. She has a bad upbringing as her parents don't care about her, how can I help her?
I would get in touch with Childline.
https://www.childline.org.uk/get-support/
The situation in general needs an awareness media campaign about the importance of adhering the laws and the risks of such behaviors on adolescents and at the level of families.
Stay out of it not much you can do she clearly knows what she's doing
Original post by Anonymous
Stay out of it not much you can do she clearly knows what she's doing
Not at 13, she doesn’t!!
Original post by hannychica
Not at 13, she doesn’t!!
Girls act way older these days she knows what's right and wrong about sex, still she shouldn't be doing that
When I was 13 all I thought about was animes and movies. Sex was the last thing on my mind. Im 19 now and I am only just starting to have sex
Original post by Anonymous
14
Literally everyone on this thread thought you meant she was having sex with an adult lol. A 14 year old having sex with a 13 year old isn't illegal. Although I would be concerned about the whole pressurising her to have sex with him
Original post by jas149
Literally everyone on this thread thought you meant she was having sex with an adult lol. A 14 year old having sex with a 13 year old isn't illegal. Although I would be concerned about the whole pressurising her to have sex with him
Ummm I’m pretty sure the age of consent is 16 years old, not 13!
Original post by Kelivesy
Ummm I’m pretty sure the age of consent is 16 years old, not 13!
Yes but in this context, we can't exactly label the 14 year old as a predator when he's only a few months older than the 13 year old. If he was 16, then that's a different story
Original post by Kelivesy
Ummm I’m pretty sure the age of consent is 16 years old, not 13!
Given he is about the same age as her the age of consent isn’t really the issue. The issue is the child pornography being produced for his benefit and the coercion to do so.
I’m not saying they aren’t too young but I don’t think their ages are the sole problem here. This is a mess that she needs to break away from for her own good.
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