Should I break up with him if I have these thoughts?Watch
''If you don't have sex with anyone at uni, you'll miss that life experience''
Ofc you don't need this to have a great time at uni, but I just want those experiences to look back on. Which is selfish, really.
I may not have true love for him if I think like this, but there are different types of love (I learned there are 7), and I learned that true love can eventually develop later on- by the way, he's perfect.
I don't want to cheat on him, obviously.
- Break up with him
- Stay loyal. I love him- maybe not true love if I think these type of stuff, but true love can be developed, and he's perfect.
Btw, he's already at uni (we have a healthy age gap of 2 years). He's loyal and is a family-guy all the way. He's the perfect guy you'd want to marry. I feel guilty for just wanting some adrenaline and experience
You could also try talking to your partner and discussing how he's coped with being in a serious relationship at uni? It is possible and not everyone wants to have hookups or casual sex at uni. You need to think about what you actually want - do you really want to have sex with people at uni, or do you have FOMO but basically want to be monogamous with your boyfriend.
At the end of the day you can't have your cake and eat it - either you're commited to your boyfriend or you're not.
It will be better for him in the long run though. He deserves someone that actually loves him.