Dating advice - FWB?

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rioslater2569
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Basically, there’s two lads - A and B.

I met B through A but never really talked to A all that much. Anyway I started speaking to B more and we ended up agreeing to a FWB situation as neither wanted a relationship. (Which A knew about)

Anyway, today A made advances over messages and we sent nudes, sexted and flirted etc. but nothing physical.

Should I tell B about this? Should I talk to either of them about the situation or what they both want? Am I a bad person for doing anything with his best mate?

My friends are saying because it’s just a FWB it isn’t a bad thing, but I’m not so sure.
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(Original post by rioslater2569)
Basically, there’s two lads - A and B.

I met B through A but never really talked to A all that much. Anyway I started speaking to B more and we ended up agreeing to a FWB situation as neither wanted a relationship. (Which A knew about)

Anyway, today A made advances over messages and we sent nudes, sexted and flirted etc. but nothing physical.

Should I tell B about this? Should I talk to either of them about the situation or what they both want? Am I a bad person for doing anything with his best mate?

My friends are saying because it’s just a FWB it isn’t a bad thing, but I’m not so sure.
I think you should let B know about this
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You should tell him, especially if you end up having sex with both. Because of STIs, etc. B might not want to have sex with you if he knows you're doing stuff with other people.
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It doesn't sound like you have cheated on anyone, unless you agreed to be exclusive FWB.
I don't think you have an obligation to tell B, unless you agreed to be exclusive. But it would certainly be a nice thing to do especially if it puts him at increased risk of STDs.
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