My boyfriend doesn't make an effort.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2.5 years now but he very really makes an effort to see me. its normally me going to him. Im the one that drives to his and spends time at his and im integrated with his family but he will never come to me unless I pick him up and them sometimes I will get to his to take him back to mine and he will change his mind and say he doesn't have time but I can stay at his. Am I being a big mug? I don't know what to do.
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Do you have sex regularly? Honestly, I think one reason could be this.
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don’t blame yourself for this. from what i can see he’s in the wrong but communication is so important in a relationship that i’d say it’s better to talk to him about this directly than be stressing and assuming the worst by yourself
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Do you have sex regularly? Honestly, I think one reason could be this.
I would say we do, as we live apart and i work 9-5 i see him 3/4 times a week and we will have sex at least 2 of them
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I would say we do, as we live apart and i work 9-5 i see him 3/4 times a week and we will have sex at least 2 of them
I'm so sorry, but as a guy, I think there are always three reasons in such situation:
1- not having sex
2- not being interested in anymore
3- interested in another girl
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(Original post by Jessica_FM)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2.5 years now but he very really makes an effort to see me. its normally me going to him. Im the one that drives to his and spends time at his and im integrated with his family but he will never come to me unless I pick him up and them sometimes I will get to his to take him back to mine and he will change his mind and say he doesn't have time but I can stay at his. Am I being a big mug? I don't know what to do.
How old are u two?
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How old are u two?
I'm 20 he has just turned 23
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Maybe you just need a bit of a change for a bit, like have a week break and refresh your meetings. He could be a bit bored of the routine you have and might feel like you're seeing a lot of each other. This is normal even with friends and family. You could see each other a bit less for a while and then do something special like plan a weekend trip or hotel weekend.
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