My boyfriend doesn't make an effort.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2.5 years now but he very really makes an effort to see me. its normally me going to him. Im the one that drives to his and spends time at his and im integrated with his family but he will never come to me unless I pick him up and them sometimes I will get to his to take him back to mine and he will change his mind and say he doesn't have time but I can stay at his. Am I being a big mug? I don't know what to do.
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Anonymous #2
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try talking to him about it. is he shy around your family? for me i always go to my boyfriends because my house is so busy and there’s no where for it to just be us. what’s it like at your house from his view
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try talking to him about it. is he shy around your family? for me i always go to my boyfriends because my house is so busy and there’s no where for it to just be us. what’s it like at your house from his view
I don't think he is shy around my family, the times he does see them he gets along with them all. And my house is just me mum dad and brother. i have my own room plus like a extra 'gaming room' (it is just the rom with the PlayStation in). so we would have our own space.
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I don't think he is shy around my family, the times he does see them he gets along with them all. And my house is just me mum dad and brother. i have my own room plus like a extra 'gaming room' (it is just the rom with the PlayStation in). so we would have our own space.
hmm does he drive too or could he walk or get the bus to yours? what would happen if u couldn’t drive to his would he come and see u. i still think you should speak to him
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hmm does he drive too or could he walk or get the bus to yours? what would happen if u couldn’t drive to his would he come and see u. i still think you should speak to him
He doesn't drive but he could get the bus and on day where I don't drive I normally get the bus to his or a taxi to his. and i will speak to him when i next see him, I just kinda want to get my head around it first.
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maybe he really is busy? if not then talk to him about how you feel and think about giving him the boot
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He doesn't drive but he could get the bus and on day where I don't drive I normally get the bus to his or a taxi to his. and i will speak to him when i next see him, I just kinda want to get my head around it first.
yeahh just ask him what’s going on he might have a good reason good luck x
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