Simply put me and my gf have been together for around 5 months. Lately I'm not able to see her for a few weeks. About 3 weeks ago and prior should always send me really sweet messages, like how she misses me, can't wait to see me, especially one time before where we had to wait 3-4 weeks.
Lately however that's gone down to 0. Over the past 3 weeks she doesn't send any messages like that at all anymore. I probably shouldn't have but I asked her do you miss me?
She said "what do you mean?" and I explain well you don't really say stuff like that anymore and since I'm the only one that talks about it I don't really like how it feels.
She got pretty angry at this and kicked off saying you don't think I miss you because I don't talk about it etc. but I try to kindly explain that it isn't she rarely talks about it, she never talks about it lately. Told her how it makes it feel one sided, like I'm needy or even unwanted.
She says she doesn't have time for that because she's too busy and it doesn't mean she doesn't miss me. What I try to point out is you know tell me that even someone working full time will find even one moment to say something like that over the course of a few weeks. She instead got really angry and defensive saying I don't trust her and all that which isn't true. I just try to explain nicely my feelings and why I feel like that, in the hopes she'll at least understand my perspective, how changing from 100 to 0 so quickly is going to make me feel a way.
It ended up with just her having an outburst saying "I don't ****ing care anymore! Why am I always in the ****!" to which I explain I'm not trying to anger you or put you in the **** but just talk to you about how I feel in hopes you understand. I got left on read, I'm afraid what to do next, I'm just even more sad now because I don't want to upset her and I'm afraid she'll not like me so much. Do I leave her to calm down, not talk about this ever again?