Why is my ex bf reaching out now?Watch
We went total no contact as soon as we (mutually) broke up this January. (It was an ugly breakup, he bombarded me with the rudest words and it’s still sickening to this day).
It’s been 6 months and I haven’t contacted him once. Then all of a sudden last month he drunk texted me “Hi *my pet name* I don’t know what’s happening to me but I really hope you’re doing okay” to which I didn’t respond. It was my birthday yesterday and he texted me wishing me happy birthday to which I also didn’t respond. Then today he texted me again “Hi kitten, I just want to know if you’re doing okay. How did your exams go?” but again, no response from my side.
And I was wondering that if he’s texting me, desperately wanting to know HOW I AM he might genuinely think I’m heartbroken and struggling 6 months after the breakup.
In reality I’m doing great, no more chronic stomach pain from the anxiety he was giving me and I’m kinda seeing someone now.
So what do you think? I don’t have any of my stuff at his so there’s no point contacting me and despite me ignoring his texts he’s still doing it