How to get over "oneitis"

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Dontknow698
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"Oneitis" if you don't know is when a lad gets fixed on one girl even though he has other options.

Throughout my life (I'm 19) I have struggled to get over crushes and some even took years for me to move on.

I just seem to idolise a few women at a time and it causes me issues as I can't move on and find someone in the present.


Have you (or someone you know) experienced it and how do I get past this trait of mine?
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You seem to think that the one woman you invest your emotions in has all traits you look for a woman. Perhaps list them down and see if other women have them as well.
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(Original post by Dontknow698)
"Oneitis" if you don't know is when a lad gets fixed on one girl even though he has other options.

Throughout my life (I'm 19) I have struggled to get over crushes and some even took years for me to move on.

I just seem to idolise a few women at a time and it causes me issues as I can't move on and find someone in the present.


Have you (or someone you know) experienced it and how do I get past this trait of mine?
distance yourself from said woman.

try and think of her less

your oneitis will pass..
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