She says I should respect him bc he's my father. A father is a role not a title. On top of that I'm not allowed out with friends at all like at all so I'm just stuck indoors in the same house full of trauma all the time.
He's abused her and he talks so much **** about her family like when my grandad died recently he had no respect and got drunk on the day. I was so pissed. He was smirking the whole time. The day after the funeral he called my grandads relatives and started saying bad things about my grandad. There was a massive fight and I called the police and panicked because I thought my older sibling got hurt
Did social services get involved when you called the police?
I get good grades in school and I am in top sets but recently I have been so unmotivated like I'm the child of an alcoholic the whole world expects me to fail anyway might as well become part of the stat they all expect to be in
I don't think it's true that the world expects you to fail. Certainly if you're capable of getting good grades and being in top sets then you must be clever, and there must be people at school that expect that of you. And if there are people expecting you to fail, then **** them! Do well just to prove them wrong and wipe the smirks off their faces. We're all rooting for you
I come from a south asian family and I didn't get into a private/grammar skl so they think I'm dumb af and they also think I'm from the hood bc I used to sneak out (got caught lool)
I'm so paranoid writing this post bc when I'm older I want to be a model and talk about my background to help other children out there going through the same thing and I'm scared someones going to think I just copied my background from this tsr post lool
Just try to avoid your father as much as you can and save up as much cash as you can to finance a move to alternative accomodation far away from him.
Develop effective coping mechanisms and a strong support system whilst you have to share accomodation with him.