My boyfriend talks about anime girls alot

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My boyfriend watches a lot of anime so he always talk about how sexy the anime girls are to me and how i should be like them he says it doesn't count as cheating because they're not real but I still feel upset by this. He even sends me like pictures of the anime girls which are sometimes naked or very inappropriate and I keep saying I don't like it but he keeps sending them.

I try to talk to him about it but he keeps bringing up boys who are my friends that I talk about and how i always talk about them but I don't even talk about them that much. I still continue but he tried putting it off. He even talks about my old crush in my school but I say that I don't even like him anymore but he still talks about it.

I don't know am I being too sensitive because I know they're not real but Idk it upsets me
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Ew.

Look, I'm an anime fan as well even though I don't enjoy hentai. I understand that's a preference, some people like it, some not.

But not to an extent that they talk about it to their gfs in this way. Anime girls don't even resemble real girls (nor are they meant to), they're odd in many ways. They're cool drawings but not like sexually attractive.

If he was talking to you about cosplayers who're usually in good shape, pretty, etc, I'd say still not ok but at least not a red flag or something to be worried about.

But this sounds like a huge red flag. Dude's a douche and a weirdo, how old r u guys?
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I'm 16 and he's 17
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Should've left him the second you found out he watched anime. This is definitely not normal and if you've complained about it he should've stopped.
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(Original post by Theloniouss)
Should've left him the second you found out he watched anime. This is definitely not normal and if you've complained about it he should've stopped.
I didn't know but I watched anime too I just thought it wasn't gonna be like this much for him
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(Original post by Theloniouss)
Should've left him the second you found out he watched anime.
lol why...?
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lol why...?
just kidding lol but I feel like there are a good number of proper freaks who watch anime (as well as mostly regular people obviously).
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That’s disgusting, leave him.
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Im sorry but leave his ass, u told him multiple times that u arent comfortable with it and he didnt respect that

There isnt respect in this relationship, not from ur side but his, if he cant see how this is not okay with u and even bringing up stupid things from the past that have no correlation, hw might be manipulating u .

I feel like u gave him too many chances to quit this behaviour, if u want give him one nore but if he doesnt listen , stand YOUR GROUND , man up and realise he is a piece of **** .

Plus no surprise its an anime lover .
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Restecp . Do you even know what that spells ?
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Dump his cartoon cheating arse.
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He's still a kid period.
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(Original post by Stumpy1001)
Restecp . Do you even know what that spells ?
...no?
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...no?
Clearly you have never seen ali g in da house.
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Learn about relationships and your boundaries when you are 16. If someone does something that makes you feel uncomfortable or affects your feelings of self worth, listen to your feelings and walk away.
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