My boyfriend talks about anime girls alotWatch
I try to talk to him about it but he keeps bringing up boys who are my friends that I talk about and how i always talk about them but I don't even talk about them that much. I still continue but he tried putting it off. He even talks about my old crush in my school but I say that I don't even like him anymore but he still talks about it.
I don't know am I being too sensitive because I know they're not real but Idk it upsets me
Look, I'm an anime fan as well even though I don't enjoy hentai. I understand that's a preference, some people like it, some not.
But not to an extent that they talk about it to their gfs in this way. Anime girls don't even resemble real girls (nor are they meant to), they're odd in many ways. They're cool drawings but not like sexually attractive.
If he was talking to you about cosplayers who're usually in good shape, pretty, etc, I'd say still not ok but at least not a red flag or something to be worried about.
But this sounds like a huge red flag. Dude's a douche and a weirdo, how old r u guys?
There isnt respect in this relationship, not from ur side but his, if he cant see how this is not okay with u and even bringing up stupid things from the past that have no correlation, hw might be manipulating u .
I feel like u gave him too many chances to quit this behaviour, if u want give him one nore but if he doesnt listen , stand YOUR GROUND , man up and realise he is a piece of **** .
Plus no surprise its an anime lover .