It's just a bit embarrassing that my mum is stopping me go out this age like normally you shouldn't even have to ask, I can just not ask but she'll find out then go livid.
Probably exacerbated by the pandemic as well
Don't get why she doesn't want you sitting even as a passenger though
Has she justified why ?
Has your mum been in a accident or something ? I'd that why she could be paranoid ? Or does she think your boyfriend will drive recklessly to show off to you ?
Because unless the car is like 50 yrs old I don't see how it can be a death trap
Only the driver can make it dangerous