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Should I be worried that my bf has got tiktok?

My and my bf have been together for 8 months now and he is so loving and treats me well. But the only concern that I have is that he only follows provocative girls on tiktok witb big arse and boobs dancing. I never questioned him but last time we had an argument over the same thing with the girls he follows on insta and we broke up cos of that as he felt I don't trust him etc. I don't want that to happen as I felt lost without him and I do love him too much for this to come between us. When we broke up he told me that he was missing me and started smoking due to stress and all that. He came back saying he missed me btw he was the one that broke up with me. He never cheated on me and reassures me that I'm the one that he wants to marry and have kids with. My bday is coming and he already bought me an expensive gift and still going to buy more. I can't fault him but this is bothering me. I don't want to bring it up as I don't want to break up again. We do love each other and our relationship is amazing, he always tells me he loves me and that I'm his princess always . He always tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves my everything and he's happy with me. Shall I let just ignore this? Please any advise would be appreciated.

Reply 1

jonathanemptage

I don’t think it’s an issue he just likes girls (like most men do) if he’s not cheating and isn’t sleeping around I’d ignore it.

Reply 2

sl4tforL

my bf follows the same accounts, all blondes too and ive got black hair i try ignore it but i feel not good enough for him and this is what he wants even tho he tells me im perfect its hard to believe when all he follows are provocative girls with big arse n boobs

Reply 3

Theloniouss

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Talk to him about it. If he's unwilling to change you have to decide whether it's worth breaking up over.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

The thing is he doesn't know that I have tiktok I just made one to see what hes up to. He doesnt chat or likes any post. So not sure what to do

Reply 5

SomeWelshGuy123

What's your age range? It seems very a very immature thing to be concerned about, especially when he's probably watching porn. Are you concerned about him watching porn, if not why do you care about TikTok?

Reply 6

username5655466

So you made an account to stalk him? Where's the trust there. You need to talk to him upfront. Things don't get solved if you leave them be.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

He doesn't watch porn and he has been honest about it. Well, since we got together as he doesn't need to. If I talk to him he will ask how I found out so not sure what to do

Reply 8

Sorcerer's Storm

You may need to work on your own sense of self-worth because if you felt totally secure within yourself and in the relationship you wouldn't care about him following other girls. As long as his behaviour isn't cheating or detracting from how you both interact then I don't see it as that big an issue. If you simply can't get over it then you need to communicate that to him and if he isn't willing to compromise then maybe the relationship isn't worth continuing.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Imo, if you have made it clear that you have a problem with something he should understand it and make this small compromise (I wouldn't call this a compromise also). Don't stress over this.. the right man will understand what you mean and wouldn't act so immature about it. It's not good how he was ready to break up with you because he didn't want to stop following these stupid accounts and said you didn't trust him.. while you were just expressing your problem.

following these accounts is not a problem.. but if you have a problem he should understand you.

Should I be worried that my bf has got tiktok?

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