14 liking a 17 year oldWatch
nah but fr the age diff wouldnt be that bad if you were both older like 20 and 23 but as of right now it isnt ideal
Anything more than 3 years age gap people don’t agree with, but even like a 2 or 3 year age gap is a lot at your age.
Best to keep your distance, especially since you’re in secondary school and he’d be in college or whatever. It would be better if you were both in secondary school and even then still weird and creepy
It would be inappropriate to pursue however.
That’s why it’s important to be careful with these ages. Let’s say a 14 and 17 year old slept with each other although the 17 year old isn’t yet 18 it’s still illegal for him to do so since he’s 16+ and she is under 16.
They’d consider the age range and for sex around 3 and a half years is too big of an age gap.
It’s a bit different if they sent each other sexual photos though because the minimum age for that is 18 and they are both under that age, but both over 13. For that the guy might not actually get into legal trouble as the police might consider 14 and 17 similar ages for something like that.
However, like you said it’s wrong and creepy, although more common than people like to think. I’ve seen year 8s dating 11s (and even 9s dating 12s) bare times