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this is a horrible memory idk what to do

Recently I got extremely drunk, drunk to the point I thought someone put something in my drink. There was a guy there and he kept kissing me and touching me and it was horrible. I think about it and I gag. It actually makes me think I'm a lesbian, I kissed a girl at the party and I loved it. I know I'm bi, so no biggie I've been with girls before, but never a guy. Ew. AHHH. Oh no. Anyway. He was strange and touchy and I can still smell him on my clothes and hands. I want to throw up. The guys friend messaged me apologising for him saying he was out of order but I still feel invaded and uncomfortable even thinking about the moment. What should I do? Please help
In my experience regretful things happen when extremely drunk. I advise against it.
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In my experience regretful things happen when extremely drunk. I advise against it.

I agree with you, but I genuinely think he did something. I've never been that drunk before. I only had 3 shots of vodka, and the week before I had around 7 or 8 shots and was still able to walk and was virtually fine. There's no way I could've been like that with the amount I drank. I think he did something. I'm worried.
Have you considered talking to someone, maybe a friend or a sexual assualt helpline or counsellor?
Regardless of if your drink was spiked, that sounds really upsetting and an awful thing to happen - I'm sorry to hear it happened to you. This guy's behaviour was clearly out of order and it sounds like you're very distressed by it, so you might need support to deal with that experience?
These may be helpful https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/help-after-rape-and-sexual-assault/ and https://www.scarleteen.com/article/abuse_and_assault/music_with_lyrics_finding_your_way_back_to_yourself_after_sexual_assault
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Have you considered talking to someone, maybe a friend or a sexual assualt helpline or counsellor?
Regardless of if your drink was spiked, that sounds really upsetting and an awful thing to happen - I'm sorry to hear it happened to you. This guy's behaviour was clearly out of order and it sounds like you're very distressed by it, so you might need support to deal with that experience?
These may be helpful https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/help-after-rape-and-sexual-assault/ and https://www.scarleteen.com/article/abuse_and_assault/music_with_lyrics_finding_your_way_back_to_yourself_after_sexual_assault

Thank you. I'll have a look at those links. Do you know if the helplines are anonymous?
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Thank you. I'll have a look at those links. Do you know if the helplines are anonymous?

Yes, they are :smile:

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