Dating our lecturerWatch
My classmate is dating our lecturer who is 20 years older than her. He is marking her work which will go towards her degree classification. They are keeping it secret from the university because they know it’s wrong. It’s freaking me out, what should I do? Should I report them? Or just mind my own business?
She’s my friend but learning this information about her and our lecturer is distressing. I didn’t want to be burdened with this information as it’s strongly against the rules and I’m not supportive of her relationship. I’m concerned about her being taking advantage off as he’s 20 years older than her.
you are also stabbing her in the back, you would lose her as a friend and I do not think you actually value her very much by the way you are speaking about all of this. I would never ever turn one of my friends in even if was against the rules. I would warn her what she is doing is risky and if they get caught then that is down to them and not you. you just sound like a jobsworth.
Please when you are giving advice don’t use hurtful language. I came for advice not judgment. I’m extremely distressed about the situation. She’s my friend, I believe he’s taking advantage of her. I ahve spoken to her but she’s doesn’t want to hear it. I’m not stabbing her in the back, I’m worried for her.