How often should you text / call in the talking stage?

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Is it normal to go a day or two without talking?

Especially if a person is busy?
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Hey! Just my opinion from past experiences, if the person takes a few days to reply i would suggest maybe they aren't as interested as you think? May sound brutal i know, but if someone is really interested in you they would wanna talk as much as possible (especially during the talking stage) and i mean most people always have their phone to hand. Maybe they are busy who knows but be cautious 😊
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(Original post by B1568)
Hey! Just my opinion from past experiences, if the person takes a few days to reply i would suggest maybe they aren't as interested as you think? May sound brutal i know, but if someone is really interested in you they would wanna talk as much as possible (especially during the talking stage) and i mean most people always have their phone to hand. Maybe they are busy who knows but be cautious 😊
So it's actually me, I haven't contacted her for a day or so. She called me at 4am last night but I was asleep. It's my sister's wedding tomorrow so I am really busy.
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So it's actually me, I haven't contacted her for a day or so. She called me at 4am last night but I was asleep. It's my sister's wedding tomorrow so I am really busy.
Explain to her that you're busy and you might not be able to text her for the next couple of days.

Also who calls someone at 4am to talk without texting beforehand lol
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In my opinion, going a day or two without talking is even better.
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In my opinion, going a day or two without talking is even better.
That's what I was thinking, like I know some people think it's a toxic trait. But I like the whole Chase thing and it's nice that she really wants to talk
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Explain to her that you're busy and you might not be able to text her for the next couple of days.

Also who calls someone at 4am to talk without texting beforehand lol
It's not that deep, she has insomnia and she calls me, i don't always pick up lol
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That's what I was thinking, like I know some people think it's a toxic trait. But I like the whole Chase thing and it's nice that she really wants to talk

Not only that but it stops you from just taking your conversations for granted.

Allows you to come back with new and fresh updates and it makes things exciting.
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Not only that but it stops you from just taking your conversations for granted.

Allows you to come back with new and fresh updates and it makes things exciting.
For sure, thanks. I just wanted to make sure I'm not acting like I'm not interested. We spoke the other day and she knows I'm busy so hopefully she misses me if anything haha
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