My boyfriends friend is pressuring me into sex with my boyfriend

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charlotte amelia
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So I recently got back into a relationship with a boy who I’ve dated very briefly a few times.
We haven’t kissed, he didn’t even hug me last time we met up with his friends yet his friend is constantly trying to tell my best friend that my boyfriend and I should have sex. I’m definitely not ready for it yet, I’m 15. Does anyone have any advice? I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable about the whole situation .
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Don't care about what others say. They don't have to deal with it's consequences.
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It's illegal bro
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You are being too polite. You should (at the very least) tell them to stop with the pressuring, for the very many reasons that are apparent; you're underage, you're uncomfortable with their recommendation, it really is none of their business (at least at this juncture), and you (yourself) can both live your life out and direct it at the same time without the input of a third-party director.
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Don't have sex until you are 18. And don't listen to sexual or relationship advice from teenagers.
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That friend sounds like an immature jerk and nosy creep.
Do not even consider having sex until you are at least 16 years old and know that you will be able to cope with all the possible consequences connected to saying yes to sex.
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I don't think you should be involved with them at all, he is probably telling his mate to convince you

You are young in my opinion to be having sex, and guys that age can certainly not be trusted, they're notorious for blackmail with nudes or things you've said, having sex for dares, two-timing, even possibly filming you secretly. I've had enough experience with such people.

You seem like a decent teenager, i'd hang around other people who know boundaries
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If they don't respect your boundaries and what you want, they don't even deserve your company, let alone any sort of romance/sex.
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Ignore what they say, it's your life you make the decisions, not them.
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I would say talk to your boyfriend that it bothers you so you both tell the guy friend you guys dont want sex yet and it is a private matter between you two.
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(Original post by charlotte amelia)
So I recently got back into a relationship with a boy who I’ve dated very briefly a few times.
We haven’t kissed, he didn’t even hug me last time we met up with his friends yet his friend is constantly trying to tell my best friend that my boyfriend and I should have sex. I’m definitely not ready for it yet, I’m 15. Does anyone have any advice? I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable about the whole situation .
15 is quite young to be honest. I personally would advise sticking to your guns because you don't want to regret it, and be aware of coercion.

Is your boyfriend aware of this, and is he involved in it? He should be establishing boundaries with his friend because it isn't okay. I suppose the friend may not view it as serious, but he needs to be made aware. If he supports it then I don't think he's right for you honestly.
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(Original post by charlotte amelia)
So I recently got back into a relationship with a boy who I’ve dated very briefly a few times.
We haven’t kissed, he didn’t even hug me last time we met up with his friends yet his friend is constantly trying to tell my best friend that my boyfriend and I should have sex. I’m definitely not ready for it yet, I’m 15. Does anyone have any advice? I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable about the whole situation .
Do not do it
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Thank you everyone! I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend as it just honestly wasn’t a very good relationship, everything was completely forced
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(Original post by charlotte amelia)
Thank you everyone! I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend as it just honestly wasn’t a very good relationship, everything was completely forced
Well done, that can't have been easy!
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