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When people cheat , and use the excuse of " its just sex" , what is the thought process behind this.

Do they actually think it cancels out what they just done orrr

I also hear "there were no feelings" if there werent y on earth would someone cheat .
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I guess you're a girl. Men have needs, they need to have sex with more girls because it's in our DNA. It's easy for girls to attack us on this point because girls don't have the same sex drive and interest for sex that we have. So we mean exactly that, it was sex without feelings, we needed sex
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I guess you're a girl. Men have needs, they need to have sex with more girls because it's in our DNA. It's easy for girls to attack us on this point because girls don't have the same sex drive and interest for sex that we have. So we mean exctly that, it was sex without feelings, we needed sex
Control yourself lmao. Stop hiding behind this excuse.
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When people cheat , and use the excuse of " its just sex" , what is the thought process behind this.

Do they actually think it cancels out what they just done orrr

I also hear "there were no feelings" if there werent y on earth would someone cheat .
In my opinion, I would run if someone said there was no feelings because if they can have sex with someone and it be random. It will continue to happen... they can’t commit and don’t feel connected to the person they are with. That’s not an excuse but they might feel that way for sure.
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Control yourself lmao. Stop hiding behind this excuse.
It's not an excuse. Males have the need to have sex or at least masturbate with more girls, it's nature. Females have a lower sex drive so that's why you say 'it's an excuse', you don't understand it because you're female
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I guess you're a girl. Men have needs, they need to have sex with more girls because it's in our DNA. It's easy for girls to attack us on this point because girls don't have the same sex drive and interest for sex that we have. So we mean exactly that, it was sex without feelings, we needed sex
What a *****y excuse. Y get in a relationship then , might as well go for one night stands instead of getting in a commited relationship , and if u do , isnt that what the girlfriend is for ???

But answer me , if say ur girlfriend done that, what would U do , would u think its "acceptable " or break up with her
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In my opinion, I would run if someone said there was no feelings because if they can have sex with someone and it be random. It will continue to happen... they can’t commit and don’t feel connected to the person they are with. That’s not an excuse but they might feel that way for sure.
Thats my point , there ARE feelings , if not u wouldnt do it lmao
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What a *****y excuse. Y get in a relationship then , might as well go for one night stands instead of getting in a commited relationship , and if u do , isnt that what the girlfriend is for ???

But answer me , if say ur girlfriend done that, what would U do , would u think its "acceptable " or break up with her
Because men need sex with more girls, not just one. I'm sure you know guys masturbate a lot, this should prove to you that it's not an excuse. We really need sex with more girls, it's in our DNA. Men will never change, it's always been this way. You will not change mankind
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Thats my point , there ARE feelings , if not u wouldnt do it lmao
we love sex, feelings are not necessary
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Because men need sex with more girls, not just one. I'm sure you know guys masturbate a lot, this should prove to you that it's not an excuse. We really need sex with more girls, it's in our DNA. Men will never change, it's always been this way. You will not change mankind
But thats y u get a girlfriend- y get in a relationship then?

So u wont answer my question, is it cuz uk if it was vice versa u wpuldnt have it
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we love sex, feelings are not necessary
And women dont, just cuz we can CONTROL it , doenst make us more different from u . Everybody is different, some women masturbate a lot and some dont , the sex drive is different for everyone is it not ?
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they feel a sense of entitlement to do so, it feeds their ego and because they have been socialised to think it's okay. they want their cake and eat it and have no real respect for their partner. like, never known a cheater to be happy if their partner cheated on them, but they have convinced themselves it's fine if they do so.
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Because men need sex with more girls, not just one.

We really need sex with more girls, it's in our DNA.
So what exactly is your point? That it's ok to cheat?
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they feel a sense of entitlement to do so, it feeds their ego and because they have been socialised to think it's okay. they want their cake and eat it and have no real respect for their partner. like, never known a cheater to be happy if their partner cheated on them, but they have convinced themselves it's fine if they do so.
They are so hypocritical it's crazy , and it's hilarious seeing them think they can get away with it and use those bs excuses
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When people cheat , and use the excuse of " its just sex" , what is the thought process behind this.

Do they actually think it cancels out what they just done orrr

I also hear "there were no feelings" if there werent y on earth would someone cheat .
It means exactly what it says. What they're telling you about others... however, is how they likely also see you.

If they cared for you and respected your feelings in the first place... they wouldn't go and have sex with other people. Therefore, "there were no feelings". At least none that were deep and genuine enough to stop them from cheating on you.

Same applies when they say "its just sex". Essentially.

They may develop shallow feelings towards you, but that's all. Like I said, it's not enough to stop them acting out.
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It's not an excuse. Males have the need to have sex or at least masturbate with more girls, it's nature. Females have a lower sex drive so that's why you say 'it's an excuse', you don't understand it because you're female
It's not that I don't understand you generally have a higher sex drive, it's that I realise we all adapt to live in a civilised society. That's why we're not all throwing **** at each other like monkeys.
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And women dont, just cuz we can CONTROL it , doenst make us more different from u . Everybody is different, some women masturbate a lot and some dont , the sex drive is different for everyone is it not ?
no, males and females are different. Males have a big sex drive, it's in our DNA from evolution. You know salmons swim against the stream and die just to get sex? You dont' understand it because you're female. Only a few females masturbate as much as males, there may be exceptions but only exceptions. For example, girls cry more than men, you deny that too? Our genetics are different. Men will have lots of sex forever, till the human race exists.
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It’s not fine to cheat.

but you can have just sex without having meaningful feelings for the other person.

while that is a reasonable excuse, its a weak attempt to justify cheating.
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But thats y u get a girlfriend- y get in a relationship then?

So u wont answer my question, is it cuz uk if it was vice versa u wpuldnt have it
gf for the relationship, but it's not enough to satisfy our sex needs. Monogamy is not natural for men. If gf cheated I would understand
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It's not that I don't understand you generally have a higher sex drive, it's that I realise we all adapt to live in a civilised society. That's why we're not all throwing **** at each other like monkeys.
Our sex drive is huge, we really love and need it. We don't throw things at each other because we don't feel the need. But for sex, for men it's the most powerful instinct and motivator. Men have always cheated and will always cheat. You can't change that
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