Can a lesbian enjoy sex with a man?Watch
That is fine if she wants to be gay good for her, but I can't help but be confused. She was my gf and I wasn't her first bf, we obvs had sex but she seemed to enjoy it a lot.
So a simple question even though shes gay she can still enjoy sex with a man? I'm having trouble getting my head round it.
I did a similar thing to your ex (thought I was bi, realised I was actually a lesbian), and for me I didn't enjoy the sex, but I did enjoy making my ex happy. I may not have been attracted to him in hindsight, but there was still a lot of trust and respect there, and I did genuinely want to make him happy in any way I could. So I enjoyed it for the positive feelings afterwards, rather than the act itself, and it was good for both of us even if that was for different reasons.