Can a lesbian enjoy sex with a man?

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Anonymous #1
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My gf broke up with me because she's been talking to a girl and discovered she is actually gay (before this she labelled herself pansexual).

That is fine if she wants to be gay good for her, but I can't help but be confused. She was my gf and I wasn't her first bf, we obvs had sex but she seemed to enjoy it a lot.

So a simple question even though shes gay she can still enjoy sex with a man? I'm having trouble getting my head round it.
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It depends on the person I think. Sexuality is about attraction, and you can definitely enjoy sex with someone you aren't sexually attracted to if it's good enough. Sexuality also isn't necessarily fixed, so it's possible to think you're attracted to someone at one time and then realise that it wasn't what you thought it was as you learn more about yourself.

I did a similar thing to your ex (thought I was bi, realised I was actually a lesbian), and for me I didn't enjoy the sex, but I did enjoy making my ex happy. I may not have been attracted to him in hindsight, but there was still a lot of trust and respect there, and I did genuinely want to make him happy in any way I could. So I enjoyed it for the positive feelings afterwards, rather than the act itself, and it was good for both of us even if that was for different reasons.
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Well I suppose it’s possible if her clit and everything is stimulated and she’s brought to orgasm.
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She may enjoy sex when she disconnects, if she forgets that she is with a man then maybe she can enjoy it.
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I had a one night stand with a lesbian recently and she said it was the best sex ever
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yes coz lesbians use dildos dont they
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she may be attracted to men but more attracted to women. sexuality is so fluid and it changes over time. don’t think about it too much just be happy for her
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She may be bisexual
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I had a one night stand with a lesbian recently and she said it was the best sex ever
Of course you did.
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