so i know a bengali girl and she knows i like her and she likes me back. i have been speaking with her personally and over the phone from couple of weeks but whenever i ask her to go on a date with me she refuses to go out. My question is are majority of bengali girls like not allowed to go out on a date or something i mean i am from different ethnic and i have hardly ever met any other bengali girl before .
i do believe her parents are strict as she seems to hang up my call the moment someone steps in her room. probably this must be the reason i guess but still being over 18 and still not allowed to go on a date with someone she likes thats just harsh. so basically don't date bengali girls even if they are interested in you coz at the end of the day they won't go on a date is that it???
she is probably refusing cause she isn’t allowed to date, not all but most Bengali parents can be strict.. have u asked her why she can’t? I guess if she did decide to take the risk and date you it would have to be kept secret..
i see now this must be reason why she doesnt want to go on a date in local as she is always like some of her family members live in that area whenever i say lets go there. i only asked her out twice but she says no and when i ask her the reason she never tells me why she can't. if it has to be a secret should i try asking her out in a different location like different city or something or is it a bad idea??
I mean you could try and see what happens? I know a lot bengalis who date & just keep it secret but It probs depends how strict her family is, if they saw u together it may cause problems for her & maybe she don’t want u caught in the middle of it? seeing as you already asked twice and she refused it seems unlikely she’ll say yes… I know it’s frustrating like if ur both over 18 u should be able to do what u want but alas it is what it is
yeah i will give it another shot i mean worth a try rather than regret it later on. well about getting caught thats not a big issue as who knows whether she is gonna stick around after couple of dates or not as in first few interactions i will know whether she meets my expectations or not same goes around for her. so worrying about getting caught comes after. let me know if this is a good decision or a bad move