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I screwed things up this morning with my crush. We have been talking to eachother for like 2 weeks now. I actually took her out last Monday and we both enjoyed each others company, we connect really well and find each other funny and attractive. So I decide to invite her to come and meet me and 2 of my friends at this bar after she finished work, the Friday just gone. We became closer, she kept resting her head on me and I kept putting my arm around her. We even held hands as I walked her home. But this morning I decided to message her ex (someone that I knew 3 years ago from school but we don't speak much now) saying that we really like eachother and for that reason I won't be speaking to him anymore. I also told him to never bother her again (because every now and then he sends nasty messages to her that make her upset). I told the girl what I did and she was mad.
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I screwed things up this morning with my crush. We have been talking to eachother for like 2 weeks now. I actually took her out last Monday and we both enjoyed each others company, we connect really well and find each other funny and attractive. So I decide to invite her to come and meet me and 2 of my friends at this bar after she finished work, the Friday just gone. We became closer, she kept resting her head on me and I kept putting my arm around her. We even held hands as I walked her home. But this morning I decided to message her ex (someone that I knew 3 years ago from school but we don't speak much now) saying that we really like eachother and for that reason I won't be speaking to him anymore. I also told him to never bother her again (because every now and then he sends nasty messages to her that make her upset). I told the girl what I did and she was mad.
I explained to her why I did it and I told her how much she means to me and that I never want to make her feel mad or sad etc and she just replied with "cute". So I told her I'm going to leave her alone for the rest of the day and that I hope she gets in contact soon and meet up again soon. I screwed up so bad...we both really like eachother and this is probably the first girl ever that I've dated that makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside....ffs
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You've only been talking for 2 weeks, it your place to do that.
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You've only been talking for 2 weeks, it your place to do that.
She told me about him beating her up and he messages her sometimes with nasty stuff trying to make her feel sad. And considering I know the guy I thought it was for the best because I don't want to talk to him and I don't want him to talk to her again. She has been speaking to me saying she hopes she can one day become my girlfriend. And this was one thing I had to get off my chest if we was to ever progress. She said "I understand that but it's just annoyed me u went back on what I said". So I apologise to her and told her she is the only woman I want behind me in the future. Her response was "cute". I've given her time to cool off. Hopefully she messages me tomorrow or at some point next week.
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(Original post by Idunno1234)
She told me about him beating her up and he messages her sometimes with nasty stuff trying to make her feel sad. And considering I know the guy I thought it was for the best because I don't want to talk to him and I don't want him to talk to her again. She has been speaking to me saying she hopes she can one day become my girlfriend. And this was one thing I had to get off my chest if we was to ever progress. She said "I understand that but it's just annoyed me u went back on what I said". So I apologise to her and told her she is the only woman I want behind me in the future. Her response was "cute". I've given her time to cool off. Hopefully she messages me tomorrow or at some point next week.
You shouldn't expect a message from her when you're the one who annoyed her. You're probably gonna have to message her first my guy
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You shouldn't expect a message from her when you're the one who annoyed her. You're probably gonna have to message her first my guy.
Maybe ur right. I just don't want to keep messaging her while she's annoyed at me, so I've openly told her I'm giving her space. Sadly I'm confused as to why today she posted a pic of her and this random guy with 2 hearts as the caption on her snapchat story. So maybe I've just been played this whole time by her. Now I feel like I don't want to message her first because if she is playing me then she can pick up where she left off.
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Ex’s should remain where they belong. In the past. This is entirely your fault.
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Wow you are an idiot
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Ex’s should remain where they belong. In the past. This is entirely your fault.
She brought him up the other day....its not like I brought it up in conversation
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Wow you are an idiot
I know lmao. This is a common trend in my life. If I ever find something that's good, I always manage to **** it up at some point. Whether it's relationship or job etc. If I don't laugh I'd have to cry about it.
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So she told you that he’s beat her up in the past, meaning he is physically abusive and you thought it would be okay to message him telling him to leave her alone? You could be putting her in a dangerous situation.
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So she told you that he’s beat her up in the past, meaning he is physically abusive and you thought it would be okay to message him telling him to leave her alone? You could be putting her in a dangerous situation.
If he keeps messaging her nasty stuff wtf am I supposed to do. Stand there and let him do it? I've warned him. He knows now I will break every bone in his body if he ever touched her or sent a nasty message to her.
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If he keeps messaging her nasty stuff wtf am I supposed to do. Stand there and let him do it? I've warned him. He knows now I will break every bone in his body if he ever touched her or sent a nasty message to her.
But she’s the one who’s been abused, not you. As a victim of abuse myself I would be mad at my boyfriend if he ‘warned’ my abuser like that because my boyfriend can’t be with me 24/7, which opens up the opportunity for my abuser to hurt me when he’s not around.

Her abuse is not your business in that way. You ****ed up
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But she’s the one who’s been abused, not you. As a victim of abuse myself I would be mad at my boyfriend if he ‘warned’ my abuser like that because my boyfriend can’t be with me 24/7, which opens up the opportunity for my abuser to hurt me when he’s not around.

Her abuse is not your business in that way. You ****ed up
Sorry to hear that u are a victim too. And now I actually feel like smashing my head against the wall now u have just said this. Wtf I am dumb asf. So now if anything ever does happen to her I'm going to hate myself forever ffs. I actually give up with life at this point.
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(Original post by Idunno1234)
She brought him up the other day....its not like I brought it up in conversation
You're the one who contacted your ex. Not her. You.
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You're the one who contacted your ex. Not her. You.


He didn’t contact his ex...........
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He didn’t contact his ex...........
(Original post by Idunno1234)
But this morning I decided to message her ex (someone that I knew 3 years ago from school but we don't speak much now) saying that we really like eachother and for that reason I won't be speaking to him anymore. I also told him to never bother her again (because every now and then he sends nasty messages to her that make her upset). I told the girl what I did and she was mad.
??? :confused:
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(Original post by Idunno1234)
If he keeps messaging her nasty stuff wtf am I supposed to do. Stand there and let him do it? I've warned him. He knows now I will break every bone in his body if he ever touched her or sent a nasty message to her.

I feel like I’m the only one to see where you’re coming from tbh.

but you should never take matters into your own hands unless you really have to. Especially since you’ve only known her for flipping 2 weeks. She trusted you with that information and you broke that.


what you did was illogical, can’t lie. You aren’t even together yet.
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??? :confused:

her ex lol

not his ex :rolleyes:
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her ex lol

not his ex :rolleyes:
Well on TSR, it's hard to tell nowadays. Anyone can identify as anyone and then suddenly change their minds mid-sentence.
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