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Anonymous #1
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Hey guys, do you class this as cheating?


My male friend,out of nowhere smacked me on my ass really hard when we were in public.

Later on, I messaged him telling me it’s not ok to do that and it hurt me very much. He claimed nothing happened, so I sent him a picture of the bruise all across my butt cheek. I obviously had underwear on, and it wasn’t at all a sexual picture (neither was my intent sexual). I’m worried this is cheating?
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It is not cheating
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How tf would this be cheating? Anons on this site and their near lack of brain cells...
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Does your male friend have a girlfriend/boyfriend? That would make it somewhat cheating on his behalf. But if he isn't in a relationship that definitely isn't cheating, just bad behavior and disrespect.
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Cheating how? It's just assault.

Edit: I've just realised you probably mean you sending the picture, but that's just documenting the assault really.
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No it's not cheating. If anything your male friend needs to learn and respect boundaries.

All you did was record evidence.
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If someone did that to my GF, especially her little “male friend”, they’re getting these hands idc.
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no its not cheating
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That is definitely cheating if he has a partner and wtf he hit your bum that hard that it left bruises?
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(Original post by till8902678)
Does your male friend have a girlfriend/boyfriend? That would make it somewhat cheating on his behalf. But if he isn't in a relationship that definitely isn't cheating, just bad behavior and disrespect.
He doesn’t. I was more worried I had cheated by sending the picture to him
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(Original post by Moonlight rain)
That is definitely cheating if he has a partner and wtf he hit your bum that hard that it left bruises?
He doesn’t have a partner but I do, and I’m worried by sending the pic I have cheated and yes, it is so disgusting I know!
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He doesn’t have a partner but I do, and I’m worried by sending the pic I have cheated and yes, it is so disgusting I know!
Ohh sorry I misunderstood. Of course it isn't cheating, you didn't do anything, he did. Your boyfriend (if he's a good one) would be way more concerned about the pain you're feeling rather the pic you sent. I highly suggest you report him to the police seeing as you have evidence too.
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He doesn’t have a partner but I do, and I’m worried by sending the pic I have cheated and yes, it is so disgusting I know!
Of course its tarnation cheating. You’ve sent him a booty pic doesn't matter if it was with a bruise, and he smacked your ass. Tell your bf otherwise you can live with the guilt.
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I meant ig it's not cheating but what on earth possessed you to into sending a picture
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im guessing your about 15?any one older would no this was not cheating but completely out of order on your friends parts. very immature disrespectful thing to do.
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im guessing your about 15?any one older would no this was not cheating but completely out of order on your friends parts. very immature disrespectful thing to do.
Hey! Yeah I know what he did was super wrong, I was more concerned that it was ME who had cheated by sending the picture
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do you have feelings for him? It wasn't cheating but I tbh I don't know why you would send him a pic of yourself if you have a bf. Maybe subconsciously you were into it?
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Hey guys, do you class this as cheating?


My male friend,out of nowhere smacked me on my ass really hard when we were in public.

Later on, I messaged him telling me it’s not ok to do that and it hurt me very much. He claimed nothing happened, so I sent him a picture of the bruise all across my butt cheek. I obviously had underwear on, and it wasn’t at all a sexual picture (neither was my intent sexual). I’m worried this is cheating?
He is not your friend and it's sexual assault
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