Seeing someone while seeing someone

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So when I met my bf and we was talking and going out on dates etc he was still seeing his ex. I didn’t know this until today a year later in which we’ve been together we didn’t think we would get together but hey. They have. A business together so they’re still in contact but should I be worried or want to leave him because of this. I met him on 6th July. We slept together on the 19th of July. He went clubbing with his ex on 7th of august and his friends. Me and him got into a relationship in October. He said that night they went out he didn’t sleep with her ( I don’t know if I should believe it )

How should I feel.

He always said he was never going to settle down with her because she was too toxic and he told her that towards the end of the relationship they wasn’t together but they was still going out plaves together.


Can I get advice please.
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Always trust your gut instinct and listen to what your common sense is telling you.
If you are very uncomfortable with the fact that he is still socialising with his ex and involved in a business with her, you know what to do.
But whatever decision you make- don't allow bitterness, insecurity or jealousy to have a place in your life.
Good luck!
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Always trust your gut instinct and listen to what your common sense is telling you.
If you are very uncomfortable with the fact that he is still socialising with his ex and involved in a business with her, you know what to do.
But whatever decision you make- don't allow bitterness, insecurity or jealousy to have a place in your life.
Good luck!
I don’t have issues they still in contact I don’t think he’ll do anything other than business with her however should I feel a type of way about knowing he was kinda seeing his ex when I was seeing him although we got into a relationship 3 months after?

They went clubbing together I don’t know if it was anything else
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You guys wasn’t together at that point.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I don’t have issues they still in contact I don’t think he’ll do anything other than business with her however should I feel a type of way about knowing he was kinda seeing his ex when I was seeing him although we got into a relationship 3 months after?

They went clubbing together I don’t know if it was anything else

hopefully now that you’re in the picture, they won’t be seeing each other anymore.

so you shouldn’t feel a type of way about it.
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This thread title reminds me of this: "Ah yes, the floor here is made out of floor."
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(Original post by cleveranimal56)
This thread title reminds me of this: "Ah yes, the floor here is made out of floor."
HMMMMMMMM.........

I read it as sexing someone while seeing someone.
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whatever works best for you man.
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