Maybe you should try more foreplay, and make sure you're comfortable with who you're with
I think I have vaginismus. I lost my virginity last year and had a horrible time having sex and I was constantly in pain and struggling to put it in. We done it a second time and it felt the same, but didn’t fully go in. We did it again a month ago, and we just gave up as it didn’t go in. I cannot masturbate or nothing without being in pain nor use tampons. Any advice or?