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[QUOTE=Anonymous;95587314]For the past however long, me and my boyfriend just have not been getting on at all. I’ve really felt like there has been a decrease in the amount of love he’s shown to me compared to how it used to be. We’ve been together for about 7 months now, I understand that the honeymoon faze goes away, but it’s things like him never kissing me, not wanting to have intimate sex, and that’s when he actually wants to have sex with me. A few weeks back, I found out I was pregnant, I opted for an abortion. Today I took the tablet, and for the past few days have been an absolute mess, which he completely knows. I thought he would plan to see me this weekend when he doesn’t have work, considering what I’m having to do, but instead he is going out with all of his friends. Meaning I won’t see him for a few weeks. I told him how I felt on FaceTime tonight, but he didn’t care one bit. And instead said goodnight with me crying my eyes out. Any help would be appreciated
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My reply would sound pretty rude or crude but based on experience and intuition, he doesn't sound like the man you want to be with the rest of your life therefore leave.
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For the past however long, me and my boyfriend just have not been getting on at all. I’ve really felt like there has been a decrease in the amount of love he’s shown to me compared to how it used to be. We’ve been together for about 7 months now, I understand that the honeymoon faze goes away, but it’s things like him never kissing me, not wanting to have intimate sex, and that’s when he actually wants to have sex with me. A few weeks back, I found out I was pregnant, I opted for an abortion. Today I took the tablet, and for the past few days have been an absolute mess, which he completely knows. I thought he would plan to see me this weekend when he doesn’t have work, considering what I’m having to do, but instead he is going out with all of his friends. Meaning I won’t see him for a few weeks. I told him how I felt on FaceTime tonight, but he didn’t care one bit. And instead said goodnight with me crying my eyes out. Any help would be appreciated
as blunt as it may sound, get out. i’ve had a similar thing with my ex partner that i dated for 1.5 years and it will probably only go downhill from there - again, apologies for being pessimistic, but this really isn’t looking good. it would be handy to try to sit down with him and say exactly how you’re feeling about everything. if he continues to behave like this, it really isn’t worth it!
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