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My family and cousins are very anti-social people and they don’t talk to anyone else except my family idk why . We come down there’s weekly and they come ours too . The children talk to friends in school but they aren’t allowed to go out with them or talk to them on social media . Bit sad tbh. Im around them every week and the more times I’m around them the more weird I become 🥲. If our family and their family so any boys talking with girls they will be embarrassed by them . My dad left a couple of yrs back when I was 12-13 so idk how to talk to girls and if I ask my mom imma get done .my brother is kinda scared of girls so no point in asking him .

So help ? *pls*
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Hi,
You don't need a special way to talk to girls, just talk to them like anyone else.
The more you practice social interaction, the better you will get at it. Try joining a club or society because if you are engaged in an activity, it will give you something to talk to other about.
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Hi,
You don't need a special way to talk to girls, just talk to them like anyone else.
The more you practice social interaction, the better you will get at it. Try joining a club or society because if you are engaged in an activity, it will give you something to talk to other about.
i joined a football club but i dont like the people there . the only reason i didnt talk to girls much in school was people calling me a simp (?) but do you think if i look more approachable more people would talk to me rather than me going to them all the time
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(Original post by KarenSpring)
Hi,
You don't need a special way to talk to girls, just talk to them like anyone else.
The more you practice social interaction, the better you will get at it. Try joining a club or society because if you are engaged in an activity, it will give you something to talk to other about.
(Original post by Anonymous)
i joined a football club but i dont like the people there . the only reason i didnt talk to girls much in school was people calling me a simp (?) but do you think if i look more approachable more people would talk to me rather than me going to them all the time
Maybe consider joining a club where you can plausibly expect to see a mixed bunch of people there. For example, a hip hop dance club normally has slightly more girls than guys there. If you're more interested in sports, something like a volleyball team is often mixed as well.

The idea with joining clubs is that the club / activity itself will provide a common interest between you and whoever else is there, as well as providing you with an easy subject to talk about.

If neither of my previous suggestions float your boat, have a think about what things do / don't interest you... and ask yourself if there are likely to be girls there.
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Maybe consider joining a club where you can plausibly expect to see a mixed bunch of people there. For example, a hip hop dance club normally has slightly more girls than guys there. If you're more interested in sports, something like a volleyball team is often mixed as well.

The idea with joining clubs is that the club / activity itself will provide a common interest between you and whoever else is there, as well as providing you with an easy subject to talk about.

If neither of my previous suggestions float your boat, have a think about what things do / don't interest you... and ask yourself if there are likely to be girls there.
i watch :
-the office
-AHS
-watched death note
-watched wandavision
-seen countless movies
watch and play football
play golf
play videogames
go gym

but im not into social media or general media ..
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i watch :
-the office
-AHS
-watched death note
-watched wandavision
-seen countless movies
watch and play football
play golf
play videogames
go gym

but im not into social media or general media ..
Based on your suggestions, you could try joining an acting / drama group? There's generally more women there, although I don't know what sort of ages they'll be? Is there an after-school drama class you could consider?

Failing that, you can consider gym classes (e.g. spin, yoga, HIIT etc.), again it's mixed groups (maybe more girls there) and people are generally sociable once the class is over.
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i watch :
-the office
-AHS
-watched death note
-watched wandavision
-seen countless movies
watch and play football
play golf
play videogames
go gym

but im not into social media or general media ..
Stop watching The Office.

Start watching youtube videos by Owen Cook, Bobby Rio, Todd V, Jim Wolfe dating advice for men that love women, Dan Bacon. Or listen to them when you are in the gym.

Swap your videogame habit for going out and socialising.

Read Atomic Attraction.
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