No sex in 4 months

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Hatt2020
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Okay to give you a quick run down

me and my ex broke up and during that time i slept with someone else, however we were still talking here and there and to be honest i did regret sleeping with someone else, although we had broken up, it still never felt right with someone else at all

i told her before getting back together what happened and she was heart broken and i felt awful, we've slept together once since and that was 4 months ago, she was so upset as she wasnt ready and sex is a big thing for her

she said she wants to wait till shes ready, but did hear from the girl mates that shes now getting a bit insecure at the fact i havent touched her in 4 months but i havent pushed literally anything because of how upset she was and until she was ready

i dont know what to do lol
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Talk to her.
If the relationship is going to last the pair of you need to communicate beyond “her friend told me this”
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you did the right thing by sleeping with someone else... you gave her space and you got what you needed, no problems here
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(Original post by Hatt2020)
Okay to give you a quick run down

me and my ex broke up and during that time i slept with someone else, however we were still talking here and there and to be honest i did regret sleeping with someone else, although we had broken up, it still never felt right with someone else at all

i told her before getting back together what happened and she was heart broken and i felt awful, we've slept together once since and that was 4 months ago, she was so upset as she wasnt ready and sex is a big thing for her

she said she wants to wait till shes ready, but did hear from the girl mates that shes now getting a bit insecure at the fact i havent touched her in 4 months but i havent pushed literally anything because of how upset she was and until she was ready

i dont know what to do lol
sleeping with someone else even though u guys were still in contact was wrong but u did the right thing by telling her.

Just talk with her. talk about whats missing, desires and whats wrong.
And if she feels like u dont want her then show her how much u love her, try to seduce or smth
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