Should I still be friends with her?

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My friends jokes to much and it’s annoying. I’m reconsidering if I even want to be her friend just because she does immature things. One time she posted a lie about me on social media and then said it was just a joke. It could of ruin my reputation.Then sometimes I don’t want to cut ties with her because she helped me out in life, like with schoolwork, specially during the pandemic when we was doing virtual. Idk that’s sounds like a dumb excuse 💀. She also assume alot. I know it’s normal for humans to assume stuff but she be taking it to a whole other level and it’s always negative things🙄.
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My friends jokes to much and it’s annoying. I’m reconsidering if I even want to be her friend just because she does immature things. One time she posted a lie about me on social media and then said it was just a joke. It could of ruin my reputation.Then sometimes I don’t want to cut ties with her because she helped me out in life, like with schoolwork, specially during the pandemic when we was doing virtual. Idk that’s sounds like a dumb excuse 💀. She also assume alot. I know it’s normal for humans to assume stuff but she be taking it to a whole other level and it’s always negative things🙄.
I would speak to your friend. Tell her how you feel about the her posting the lie on social media, tell her that you feel hurt that she keeps making jokes at your expense and ask her why she feels the need to keep doing it. Try not to accuse her of anything just tell her how you feel. Give her a chance to change what she is doing. You may find that she is feeling insecure , having some mental health problems that she hasn’t told you about or that she is having problems at home. However if she doesn’t seem to be trying to be a better friend after you talk to her then you should consider whether staying such close friends with her is helpful for you. It doesn’t mean you need to stop being friends altogether but maybe hang out with other people more and be less available to her.
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