I am the kind of person that just says whats on their mind like all the time, especially if its something important to me. Most of the time it doesnt even make sense. So i expect my friends to reciprocate that and tell me what they are feeling because im not going to play games to squeeze out information on their life. But this makes me really insecure when I dont know about my best friends relationships or other basic stuff happening in her life cos I feel like she doesnt want to talk to me. How do I stop feeling terrible when this happens? Cos I feel like an idiot when someone else starts talking about things that i should know about her
I have two groups of friends, one where they tell me everything (girls) and the other where I have no idea what’s going on half the time (nerdy boys). For me, telling them that I’d liked to be kept in the loop, and that it was frustrating that I wasn’t, always works best for me.